Change to better yourself. Not for what others think.

Well, he probably wouldn't be talking to you if he didn't like you. If he's online a lot, then he probably has other things to do (like YouTube and games and stuff), so if he prioritizes you above that, then he's most likely very interested.

If you are comfortable in your body then you do what you want. But if you feel like you need to lose some weight then go ahead and do it. Just don't make yourself feelyou need to change who you are for a guy. I know living with insecurities is tough but just try to be happy with who you are, I know saying it is much easier than doing it.

-blam!- him right in the... Wait... How would this work... Ride him right on the dick? If you like him a lot just meet up

If you're insecure about your weight do something about it, But from how it sounds the guy likes you either way so if that's the issue don't worry so much about it

If he's happy with you then enjoy your time together and don't change. But tell him you want to loose weight for yourself and ask him to support you. Being overweight sucks. Loosing weight will make you feel better and help you anyway.

Lose the weight. Youll feel better all around, looks be damned.

If you are considering losing weight then that means you want to loose weight and you should loose it for you but also be confident in who you are no matter what

honestly, dumping a guy because of what past guys did is really shallow. give him a chance.

Most people have body image issues. We are all keenly aware that those around us are silently judging us on appearance. The trick is to be okay with it, or at least confident enough to attract people who accept you for who you are. If you feel you should shed a few pounds, go for it, but if you're healthy and have someone in your life that looks past what some may consider a flaw, it's easy to disregard negativity stemming from other's insecurity. Looks matter, they do, but not in the same way as society suggests. Lots of beautiful people lead happy and fulfilling lives surrounded by loved ones...while looking how they wish to look. Beauty isn't found on the cover of a magazine, it's found in having that extra serving, loosening your belt, chasing it with a glass of wine and smiling still because you know you look good. I'm not just saying that to be motivational, mind you. Me and my wife are larger people. We shy away from scales and eat fast food. Maybe alittle exercise would help us trim out, but we both have our health and look damn fine dressed up. If you're with someone who doesn't care that you've got a few pounds on him, return the favour by not judging him on being too thin for you or being too harsh on yourself. Looks do matter, and it seems he likes the way you look. If you feel the need to do something about your appearance, go ahead and do so. There are options, but only do it for you. If you do it for someone else, you'll only bring up issues for them about thier own self identified flaws. Curse of a good person is empathy. Also, as a side note, anyone who projects thier insecurity onto you and openly judges you...not worth your time. They aren't telling you to change because they think it's in your best interest, they're just out to cause misery for the sake of making themselves feel better. That skinny bitch glaring at you cuz your thighs rub? She had to purge to keep her weight down and envies you for your sandwich. She secretly hates what she sees in the mirror. The guy who won't take you to dinner cuz he figures you need to diet? Too self absorbed to ever put effort into your happiness. Toxic, toxic individuals.

He'd probably appreciate it if you did on the inside but won't say anything about it.

Do something about it.

what do you think you should do?

It'll be fine.

As a dude, I've met some some chubby ppl who are fine AF like some ppl can definitely make it work, and plus if he say he don't care don't worry about it. That being said there's health stuff to think about too...

Never change for anyone else, if you choose to do something it should be your own decision. However you can use it as motivation.

If he talks and acts like he's alright with it, he probably is. I wouldn't let it drag you down.