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12/3/2018 8:47:36 PM
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I'm (Un)Lucky???

So I'm completely surrounded and friends with a lot of girls... [spoiler]who all have relationships already...[/spoiler]
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    Time to test out good old Toast/envelope method.

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    • And? Who cares about relationships. Relationships are stupid.

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    • dude me too. my first semester is about to end next week and i have made 6 friend girls and 2 guy friends who i rarely hang out with. 1 isn’t interested at all, 1 only likes 2D guys (anime), 3 are in a relationship, and 1 is lesbian

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      Same, but all of them are either lesbians, in a relationship, or both. And I'm just sitting here as a straight guy thinking did I just play myself.

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      • Modificato da OldboyVicious: 12/5/2018 5:28:48 AM
        Here is how to get a girl in your situation: Do a bunch of fun stuff that your female friends wish they could do, but their boyfriends won't do. -A girl expressed an interest in surfing, but her bf isn't into it? Take surfing lessons and talk about how much fun it is. -One of them likes to try different exotic foods but her bf only eats pizza and burgers? Talk about all the amazing different foods you've eaten and how you love going out and trying new things. Pick a few things from the group of girls that appeal most to you, that you actually would want to do. I'm sure you get the idea, keep it low key though, don't come off like you're bragging about what you're doing, or seeking their approval. It's better if your friends talk to each other about you doing those things than it coming straight from you all the time. When you hear that there is a personality trait about their boyfriends that they don't like (and trust me, there will be a several things), exhibit those traits, just like you are doing with hobbies and activities in the above section. -She doesn't like how he is frequently late? Always be punctual to the point that friends mention it. -She doesn't like how he isnt generous? Tip well, give a dollar or two to that homeless guy when he asks, etc. Again, you want friends to mention these traits about you, you dont want to brag about it yourself. Since you have a lot of female friends, it should he easy to pick 2-3 activities and 2-3 character traits from the group as a whole. At the same time, when you're hanging out with them, if you talk about something you want to try, dont juat ne like "yeah, that would be cool" and then leave it at that. Actually go try it, go do it, be proactive about new experiences. As you hang out with different female friends, and some of them talk to each other about you, they will come to the consensus that you are a great guy, because you are embodying many triats that they wish their boyfriends would have. Every now and then when you see a cute girl that you don't know, talk to your female friends about her. Be like "She seems cute, but I dont know, she seems high maintenance" or something to indicate that you're attracted and interested, but picky. If you've done all the above steps, the conversation is very likely to turn to what you would look for in a girl. At this point be honest, and dont be afriad to be picky with what you would want. You're female friends will be clamoring to set you up with someone great. It's likely to even get competitive among them on which one can find you a girlfriend. Encourage that competitiveness. When one of them points to a girl and says "you should ask her out" you can be like "ewww no way hahaha" kind of tease her, but when another one points out a girl you might actually like, be like "oh, good one, you should be my wing-girl" and be sure to keep it all light hearted and jokey. At this point, you have taken steps to improve yourself and expand your horizons, try new things, and developed a habit of being spontaneous and dynamic. It has taken time and no small effort. But now you have friends who admire you and see you as a great catch, and want you to have a girlfriend and be happy. They will help you, give you whatever advice you want, help you with style, conversation, whatever you need. From there, you'll go on dates, so just remember to be looking for a genuine connection and be honest with what you want in a relationship. The key is, that the hobbies and activities, personal habits and traits that you work on arent things you're working on just because they like them, its things they wish their bfs would be into that you would actually want to do, be good at, and embody.

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          Learn to lick your eyebrows.

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          • Talk to girls you and your friends don't know. It'll make them jealous.

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            • Modificato da BADMAGIK: 12/5/2018 1:11:55 AM
              Here's a bit of advice. When you guys give up mentally about wanting a girlfriend, that's when it happens. Being serious. I've learned over numerous girlfriends in my life, when you finally be yourself, bam you're in a relationship or you're highly desirable. Guys tend to act their personalities. I literally mean, they're playing actor. When guys like someone the majority of the time they act out of themselves and try to be something they're not. Either they agree to pretty everything, they become overly nice, always looking to please etc. Example, >"oh you like that too, so do I, hahaha" >reality you don't really give a shit. You literally have to stop caring about trying for something and just be you. When you do that, a little thing called confidence starts to emerge. Girls see that instantly and it usually gets their attention. My best relationships always was me being me and treating girls like any other person I socialized with. I was relaxed, confident and making them laugh became really natural. My girlfriend now of five amazing years is the greatest thing that ever happened to me. Our entire relationship at it's core is friendship. No matter what we disagree on here and there, she is my best friend. I'm me and not acting out something I'm not. Sorry I wrote that out and I know, it's unlike me here on this forum, but it's honest.

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            • Lucky.

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            • Same! Except they're actually mostly single. Not really even sure why they hang around me so often, I'm a pretty dull person usually, but hey. Guess that's what friends are for.

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              • Same

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              • Just ask one of your friends if they be willing to share.

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              • I tell you my best technique for getting honeys [spoiler]Get better grammer first my famalan[/spoiler]

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                [quote]I’m (Ug)L y???[/quote]

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              • ... Oof... [spoiler]not included in the DLC[/spoiler]

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