"Don't be scared. Anyway, as far as sadists go, you are tame. You obviously have never seen 50 Shades of Gray. I wouldn't be standing here if you were as dangerous as you think. Regardless, I doubt anything you could do would make Aer leave you. You and her share exactly the same symptoms. She wouldn't leave you anymore than you could leave her." *subconsciously steps an inch closer* [spoiler]Sidenote: In the second state of the relationship, it turns pretty unstable. In other words, if you do screw up, make up for it.[/spoiler]