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Modificato da Cthylla: 8/17/2015 9:08:59 PM
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Issues with Transexuals?

I want to see your genuine concerns with it. As a friend of a transsexual, I feel that it's unfair to say they have issues and they are mentally deranged since, from when I talk to my friend, she seems to be normal and in my opinion, she was happier after the operation as she felt she wasn't trapped in her body. This isn't b8, I really want to hear you concerns and questions for me regarding this friend. I will be sleeping now so I won't be able to answer immediately :3n Edit: Before I went to bed, a good number of people seem to understand that it's an actual issue... [url=https://m.reddit.com/r/explainlikeimfive/comments/31u95d/eli5why_is_a_transgender_person_not_considered_to/]link[/url] This is a link to a reddit post which should answer some questions...
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  • Personally I have no issue with them. It's their choice how they live their life in the end and it doesn't effect me. However often with transgender people there are in fact other underlying mental issues... For example one that I know personally is actually autistic. Of course this person wouldn't feel comfortable in their own body because that is part of the disorder. I don't really think mutilating your body with gender reassignment could possibly fix this. I think proper therapy and learning to accept oneself as they are is a far better solution. Studies that showed high satisfaction rates with gender reassignments were actually vastly misrepresenting the truth. You see those studies failed to acknowledge that around 60% of the participants never followed up with the studies and reported back. The reason for this is because in many cases they regretted it and in fact many resorted to suicide. That's not to say that it may not satisfy and help some people, but I feel it demonstrates that often times it's better to deal with the underlying issues then to do something drastic like gender reassignment. It's like if you suffered from depression before your sex change, you will likely still suffer from depression after it. Your problems will still be there when it's over so it's better just to deal with them and learn to live with it. I think it's far better to learn to accept yourself for who you are, as you are. There are many things I dislike about myself and my own body I wish I that could change. However I find acceptance for it and realize that it's many of these things that makes me who I am. That these are the struggles of the human condition which makes life worth living. These are the things that drive us to grow as people and find meaning and fulfillment in life. Like I said though in the end it's up to the individual and I won't pass judgement on them in any case. If they want to go through with it more power to them, I wish them only the best in their journey. I just hope they take the time to try and learn how to love themselves for who they are and to find acceptance for themselves first. But we all are on a different journey through life, we just make the best of it we can. My personal rule of thumb is to try and never do anything that you can't take back. I hope that anyone who considers gender reassignment takes the points I made into careful consideration before taking the plunge. In the end though I hope more then anything they find happiness whether they go through with it or not.

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    • It isn't natural so it shouldn't happen

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      • How do I tell them I'm not bi?

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      • idrgaf unless it effects me. Which it hasn't yet.

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        • I feel like it makes things too complicated when people decide to change their gender. Also, the people that flip if you accidentally call them the "wrong" pronoun without them saying anything prior are assholes

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        • I have nothing against the person. I just have issues with the arrogance of people attempting to "correct" nature. They can't. They might have an operation to "change" their sex but the fact is nature has written them to be whatever it is they started out as in their chromosomes. Think of it like a book. Your friend was "The Count of Monte Cristo." They decide to change because they don't like who they are on the outside, but what did they really change? Your friend's cover may now read "The Great Gatsby" but on the inside they are still "The Count of Monte Cristo." Your friend is genetically written as whatever they were born as. By undergoing the operation, the change was only skin deep. They really have not changed anything.

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          • ey girl, you or your friend cute?

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            • I honestly just don't care, but some members of the trans community feel that my total apathy to their,"oppression" is in some way hostility or complicity. Then they try to force feed me some BS about privilege or whatever, and it just gets annoying.

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            • Who cares? What happened to live and let live? Everyone's so caught up in who thinks what about so and so. Billions of people in the world, if someone offends you..move along.

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            • I have no problem with them, so long as they are honest. If I ask you if you're a chick, and you were born a dude, answer with a "I am now"

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            • Trans people are people. Conservatives get all antsy when their perfect world begins to change.

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            • Any hole is good enough for my dick.

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            • No issues

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            • I don't have any problem with transsexuals. Yet I don't get how their children don't grow up messed up, unable to see their trans parents. *bu-dum-tss*

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              • Personally I just think it's weird. Would never discriminate, but is just weird.

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              • Modificato da Ace: 9/21/2015 4:50:55 AM
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                Bruce Jenner is a man

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              • I think they are good people who just weren't happy being who they were.

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              • Necrobump

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              • I'm ok with them but I won't date them or anything.

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              • No problems. I'd just like it recognized as either a mental disorder, deformity, or birth defect. I know they are taboo harsh words but I think it will actually help people be more accepting of them. It's not like they decided they wanted to be the other gender, that's how they were born and feel. But that being said its not healthy or completely normal because as you said they feel trapped in the wrong body. I feel that the sex change operation is a form of treatment for the problem tho and that is how it should be treated

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              • 'Friend'... Right we believe that *sarcasm*

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                • Modificato da Berezyn: 8/21/2015 6:34:20 AM
                  The real issue for me is why am I not attracted to them? Alas, I have no choice but have no sexual arousal whatsoever.

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                • I have no problem with it, they're a person no matter what they want or do with their body. I hate when it's called a "mental disorder" because that just seems so bad.

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                  If people have a problem with circumcision, they should have a problem with trans people getting their surgery

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                  • Transgender people are not deranged. Like all methods of thinking, it's just chemical and hormonal imbalances, which is natural. However, I will never understand the urge to chop off my junk and turn it into a flesh pocket. No f'n way!!

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                    • For me, it's kinda weird. I am a person of science and logic. Science proves that transgender people are born that way and I completely accept them. However I still can't shake this thought in the back of my mind that transgender people are just a bunch of men who want to be women. I don't know why I think like this because I know it isn't true. Because of this, I'll always accept and treat a transgender person like any other person but I'd never date one or do anything sexual with them.

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