Ok. So I'm 37 years old and have always been an avid gamer. I am also a married man with a mortgage, car payments and a job. My gaming is a hobby that is well deserved. Perhaps more than the ones who insult adults for gaming and have their games handed to them by mommy and daddy. Here's the thing... My generation is the first to grow up with console gaming so there is no comparison to an older generation. No one told me at a certain age I was supposed to stop liking gaming. The story and subject matter is mature. I'm not playing children's games. So I think that trying to insult an adult for gaming is one of the weakest insults you can drop. It doesn't bother me but I have heard it a few too many times.
The reason I bring this up now is earlier I was in a Vault of Glass raid team with what I thought were mature teens/ young adults. We were fighting Atheon and one of these douche's friends pops in and immediately starts insulting the group and calling us kids. So I said, "Why don't we focus on talking about the raid we're in for now?". The douche starts getting smart so I mention the fact that he came in insulting us and calling us kids when I'm in my 30s. That's when the lame insult comes into play. And then the arguing starts. Douche's friend tells me to shut up so douche can keep going on about how cool he was for hitting level 32 in the first week of the Dark Below. Had I been thinking clearly at the time, I would have called him out on that supposed 32 in first week comment. I know that no one reached that level in the first week.
There is nothing to support the insult that adults shouldn't be gaming. Last I checked, over 50% of adults played games in one form or another. Even if it's on their phones. So to all the kiddies out there who use this insult, it makes no sense. I've just gotten it a few too many times now and had to speak out.
How many of you are adult gamers out there? Have you been insulted for revealing your age? At what age exactly was I supposed to turn my nose up at gaming? I didn't get the memo apparently. How many of you think this is a totally reasonable hobby for adults? Do you ever lower your age to avoid criticism? Why should we feel like we have to just because there are ignorant, immature kids out there who use their parents as an example for the average adult? I know quite a few people who game with their dads. Does that make their dad a loser?
Please feel free to comment on this matter. I really want to hear from the adults out there so I know I'm not crazy. Let's put this ridiculous insult and way of thinking to rest. And if you're a kid and comment on here, it shouldn't be negative since you have no experience in the matter. You will be shamed.
Edit: I'm so glad to see so many people responding! Hopefully this will spread. I've had some great discussions with you people. Thanks and keep it up!
Edit 2: Still going strong! The word is spreading. Thanks so much everyone. So much insightful discussions and comments. Except for the one troll.... But honestly, I expected nothing but comments like his. Thanks community for showing positive support.
Edit 3: I'm so humbled by all of the responses and discussion in here. I didn't expect even 20 comments but, over 500?! This is great. With all of this respectful discussion going on I would like to think someone at Bungie has noticed. I'd like to hear from someone with Bungie. Let us know what inspired them to go into this field, how old they were when they started gaming etc.
I never intended for kids in general to take grief from this forum. If I were to make negative comments about all younger gamers I'd be no better than the kids that insult adults. You friendly young gamers know who you are. I've defended quite a few in here.
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37 RisposteCantStopSuckinCock just can't get over the fact he lost an arguement so he post our arguement here again. Lol why i do not know because well, get ready for it...... it's already here in this thread. He says im autistic because i spelled my name with all caps. Lol that is his insult. Such a hypocrite. CantStopTheRock has no spaces lacks the proper punctuation and doesn't have a single proper noun so it shouldn't be capitalized at all. Come on Rocky this post is for you.... im waiting
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I play with older players as well with lives and kids and to be honest it's great, they share with me their adult lives and children stories and things and I love it, I on the other side can relate to them as an 18 year old with what they have done at my age and what i go through so it's a balanced relationship. Plus they're great guys to play with. So I'm all for the older generation playing games, I know I'll be a kid at heart my whole life so gaming is something I'll be continuing through the years
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I mean I'm 20 so I can't necessarily consider myself apart of the adult category that you're talking about, but most teen or younger players that I have encountered and played with are awful. They do not understand dimensions of the game and I frankly can not or have the patience to play with younger players.
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I'm 19, and I prefer to play with people who are at least my age. My favorite people to play with are in their mid 30's, and we play well together. That being said, I cannot stand kindernazis...
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48 RisposteI mean I'm 12 u do realize u need to suck it up I mean I got kicked and insulted and never posted my hurt
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Modificato da Palmtop x Tiger: 6/15/2015 12:55:46 AMI've received this treatment before and I've only just turned 23.. It doesn't bother me though, I grew up playing video games with my father and, like him, I'll game when I feel like it. That aside, this argument speaks for itself. You don't need to defend it, or yourself. I think everyone today would benefit from having thicker skin. Is it annoying? Sure. But that's about it, don't take offense. Feel free to add me, gt as above. Between my boyfriend and I, we've got a pretty good circle of mature, good humored, fun gamers and we're not adverse to sharing. :) Edit: [Xbox 360]
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Ya I love the mute button. Any kid either gets kicked or muted.
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4 RisposteI am a kid but: A. I don't insult anyone older then me (unless it's my brother) B. I don't insult people cause I'm not that good at destiny
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1 RispondiI am on your side friend. Not only have I been playing games since the age of 5 (I am 30 now btw), but I just finished college this year in Game Design so I can continue to not only play games, but design some for those whom think it should only be for kids (which is just sad). I know after dealing with the stress that life can provide, i enjoy picking up that controller and escaping to the many realms I have visited over my many years of gaming. Hell, not only do I still keep up with a lot of the new games out today, but I have games on my shelves going back to the days of Atari. I play them to not only enjoy myself, but to analyze what makes the game either a hit or a miss. ~Kurosaki
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I agree with you.
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4 RisposteSorry for what my generation became. I'm really sorry I wish I could whoop their ass too.
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I'm the 3693rd post, unbelievable! That's all I've got, c-ya.
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Because we are too cool 4 school
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6 RisposteI'm not an adult yet but I know Adults DESERVE Respect -D3ADShOt signing out
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10 RisposteWell goodnight Andy I'm guessing my notifications will be blown up tomorrow:
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25 RisposteAdults that insult kids. Even better: adults that insult kids that manage to lose arguments because they're so dumb. Lol.
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Gotta give it to get it.
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24 RisposteActually your wrong, I hit 32 the first week the dark below come out, I had 2 hunters and got lucky with the drops... Boots and chest the first time and the gauntlets and helm the next, I got to 34 in a day and a half when house of wolves was released so just because you can't do something doesn't mean somebody else can't. Oh and the fact your bitching because a child has been childish makes you look and sound like a retard... Grow up and play with people your own age lol
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75 RisposteI get the concern here kids suck to play with they don't listen, or play as a team and for everyone posting youtube vids and siding with the kids get bent. You know that they are not fun to have in the fire team. They are cocky little bastards
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4 RisposteModificato da The Trojan Horse: 6/13/2015 2:35:34 PMI'm not an adult, but old enough to know that if you own a game, you have the right to play it and not be insulted. [spoiler]just don't be surprised if no one wants to play with you if you are insulting [/spoiler] *EDIT* Yea, my generation kinda sucks sometimes. I apologize on behalf of all the polite members of my generation. We're sorry.
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Lol trying too hard mate , in not reading all that .
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Modificato da TheBeanMan00: 6/13/2015 5:41:18 AMSome of the first raiders are adults, I raid with adults all the time and owe my elder cipher to one. As a teen a raid with anyone until they give me crap about being young then i kick them before loot drops. Heck I play with my friends dad he's Way better then him lol
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2 RisposteI am 25 with 2 sons and I am constantly berated and kicked for having to help with my sons. I feel your pain.
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52 RisposteHeard my kid talking smack on Xbox burst in the room smacked him with a belt that was 2 years ago and he hasn't done it since
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14 RisposteModificato da TitanExpert: 5/27/2015 12:05:40 AMI'm not around your age but I am 18 and the comments from kids these days. It's rediculous kids use the language they do these days in elementary school damn and hell were like curse words. I was playing GTA V with my friend who is 20 and a four year black child started cursing my friend out for no reason. Calling him "-blam!-" "-blam!-" and "bitch -blam!-" also various other adjectives. It's sad to see what's happening to younger kids. On the plus video games are good for you.
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Im 16 and i have respect for everyone until they give me a reason to hate him in your situation i feel bad knowing you had to deal with this