Just caught my girlfriend that I've been dating for 4 years cheat on me with my best friend that I've know for over 10 years.
[b][u]give advice pls[/u][/b]
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*ex-girlfriend *ex-best friend Don't keep either one around. There are certain things that friends shouldn't do. There are certain things a significant other shouldn't do. They both crossed a line.
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Ignore her completely. Cut every single ties related to her. There is nothing more satisfying than having them wonder what the heck has happened.
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-blam!- his sister right in the pussy
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Don't make a big deal out of it. Just end it, and move on. The less you care about it, the better your revenge will be.
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Best revenge is to not give a crap and be happy without her cos she'll get annoyed that it ain't her making you happy. Cut them both off. :)
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Cause you didn't drank doritos. Casual
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Next week on shit that didn't happen: Op actually finds a girlfriend.
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#AlNeedsAdvice
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Modificato da Im Panther Land: 3/25/2015 11:19:25 PMpic pls so I can recommend a solution also I can't tell if you mean had sex or held hands level of cheating
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Modificato da IIIEPINEPHRINE: 3/25/2015 11:17:10 PMI'm going to quote myself from another thread. Take it as you will. [quote]Thanks for reading all of it. I'm sorry to hear that you are going through something similar, but I want to assure you that it will get better. If I may I would like to shed some light on the situation from having gone through it myself. For me, this situation was by far the darkest and lowest time in my life, and it sounds like it just may be for you too. I want you to know that I too contemplated self-harm and suicide, but please understand that you don't control the thoughts that go through your head. Your feelings in this area are absolutely normal and completely justified. Grief is a nasty feeling, almost as bad as the empty, stomach wrenching pain of betrayal. I don't want to lie to you; you are going to hurt, for a while. Only time will help, unfortunately. My biggest suggestion is to use all of the pain and anger as motivation to improve yourself. The best way to "get back" at your ex is to be successful. That could be anything, stuff like quitting smoking, getting into shape, getting into college, or making a lot of money. For her to catch up with you a few months down the line and see you doing well will be the best revenge you can get. I would recommend removing everything from your life that will remind you of her, sever all communication immediately and pack sentimental items away for a later time. Remove her number from your phone and even call and have it blocked if you think you will be tempted to call her. What I did was put all of our things into boxes and asked my mom to hold on to them. I didn't open those boxes for years. After I severed the emotional ties to her I was able to open those boxes with a smile. But it took time. This might sound impossible, but you should be polite and respectful towards her. Regardless of how bad things were going between you, there is no excuse for infidelity, and that is on her. She knows it and will have to live with it forever. Being an asshole and lashing out at her will only help her justify her wrongdoings. Being respectful and polite will be excruciatingly painful for you now, but will help you respect yourself later on. Be aware that at night your feelings are going to intensify, these are sometimes referred to as the “witching hours.” Your mind will tear you apart if you don’t distract it. The best way to get through the day is to keep yourself busy. Reunite with old friends and family, and pursue new things. For me, I felt like there would be no other girl out there that would want to date me. I thought I would be alone forever and felt like a piece of crap. So what I did was hit the gym, hard. This ended up helping me in many ways. Most importantly it gave me the chemical releases in my brain that made me feel good and confident. I would literally be in tears on my way down to the gym, I would pull up, park, put my ipod on, wipe my tears, and go kick my own ass in the gym. I would walk out of the gym on top of the world, happy, confident, and reminded that SHE messed up by ruining the relationship with me. My perspective would change, at least for that day. The 2 other factors that the gym did for me was get me in shape and allow me to sleep at night. I did a ton of research into eating right and working out correctly. I started gaining muscle and cutting body fat almost immediately; I worked out so hard that I would fall asleep as soon as I hit my pillow and avoid the long shitty nights battling with my thoughts. Soon after I went on vacation to California to visit some family. Word got around of what I was going through and my family flew me out to get away. I extended my vacation by 2 months and ended up picking up a part time job to pay for the extended trip. I met cool new people and had some awesome experiences with some new girls I met while exploring, if you know what I mean ;) All that hard work in the gym paid off. I started surfing again and made some new friends, life became good again. After returning to Hawaii my old friends invited me over for a get together. I showed up to find all of old crew there. They sat me down and sincerely apologized one by one. My new state of mind allowed me to forgive them and start hanging out with them again almost immediately. My ex now has a kid, is in an unstable relationship, and wont talk to me because she hates how successful I am. She told me this in person the last time I saw her. In a self-centered shitty way it made me feel good. I am now in a long-term relationship with my current gf (5 years) and things are great. I graduate college in a month and will be moving on to bigger and better things. I approached this relationship very differently than my last. I wasn’t perfect then, and I’m definitely not now, but I have learned a lot and brought that insight into this relationship and it has definitely helped. These times might be dark and dreary, but try to understand that they will pass and you will learn and grow from them. Anytime you want to chat or just vent shoot me a PM. I’ve been down this road, and no one needs to go down it alone.[/quote]
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Go shot ur friend
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Have a threesome it aint gey if its a threeway
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Slash his tires.
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Beat his ass throw nails in his drive way have sex with y ok ur exes sister and best friend and call it a day
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Modificato da ShanShanxo: 3/25/2015 10:36:28 PMI'd get revenge but don't do something stupid or too forward. While screwing someone else or posting nudes sound great at the time, it really isn't. Then make the betrayal known to people. Then give them cold shoulder and never look back.
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Modificato da FIST OF PANIC: 3/25/2015 10:13:01 PMStep 1 beat his ass Step 2 beat his ass again Step 3 spit in his mouth Step 4 bang his sister/ex/best female friend Step 5 slap da hoe Step 6 never talk to them again
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Dude that sucks.
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1 RispondiTypical hoe. But your friend is a jerk and if possible kick his ass.
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3 RisposteIs she hot?
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Happened to me too comrade.
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Forgive them and move on, although I wouldn't advise trusting either of them again. I'd probably cease contact with both to be honest.
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Tell them you forgive them and then never talk to them again
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Cut contact with both. Don't even bother talking to them again.
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1 Have a drink or two to calm down 2 forget both of them exist 3 Enjoy new found freedom.
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Modificato da Cocaine Pancakes: 3/25/2015 2:37:20 PMMake it known to all your friends, all her friends and her parents. If I had a daughter that cheated, I would never respect her again. Edit: if you have her nudes, post them on Social Media.
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Well if she is willing and you are willing to work this out, work it out. Cease all contact with your friend and she need to do the same. If this happens again, or if she attempts to make contact with your "friend", kick that hoe to the curb