I'm not sure why you're still bumping this. You've already had lots of good advice given here. I'll make it blunt and sweet for you. 1) Grow up. You will never learn to love somebody until you love yourself. If you are worried about this girl having sex with other people in the past, that will project insecurities and you will never get anywhere with her. Don't ever be insecure about yourself- stay headstrong. Chances are, she had no idea who you were at the time. That's none of your business, and you don't want it to be. 2) Bungie.net is NOT the place to be seeking relationship advice (though here I am giving it to you, makes sense right?). In other words, stop whining and bumping this, and go out there and do something about it if you really "really" like this girl. Being different makes no difference. We are all different. If you're young, you need to look to yourself to make the right decision. Not us. You make the call, where do you see yourself with this girl in the future? 3) There is no "ruining friendships". My SO is my bestfriend and has been since the day we met. She's the kind of different I like. You may feel the same. If you've known her for 2 years and you still haven't considered showing her your true feelings, you're wasting your time. You NEED to be confident and go for it. You absolutely NEED to make sure that at the right time, and at the right place, you two start to work things out - that's if you really want this to work. Don't expect her to do it or pop into love out of the blue. You may be at a point in your life where you don't actually know what you want. Think about it and ask yourself, what can I offer her? 4) Infatuation is dangerous. Be careful who you let your mind and heart fall into love with. My personal advice is to be a man about it, not to be condencending. There's a difference between a boy and a girl, and a man and a woman. Play your cards right, or don't play them at all. [b]You only have two options. [/b] Option A) She feels the same way and would love to get closer with you after all this time. Therefore, you are wasting her time, as well as your own. Get busy. Option B) Don't waste your time. Move on. I don't know you two at all so I can't come to a conclusion on how your relationship will play out. But I can tell you one thing, not letting it play out at all is Option B, and it sucks. Being insecure when you aren't even in a relationship yet also sucks and will likely lead to toxicity. So be smart about how you think about women, and be smart about how you project yourself. Go get em'.

Wrap your tool. Hit it like a champ. Come back and give us a status update

You don't know if you like her because she's had sex before so that makes her a slut? Grow up.

Why don't you just ask her? Instead of making such a big deal out of it.

Some girls are super friendly to the point where it comes off as flirting

Toast/envelope

I suppose if you have been friend zoned maybe and you like her ask her if she likes you or tell her your feelings. Better try to do something than nothing.

You sir are now in what we call the FRIEND ZONE. It's a horrible place, were you will never escape. She will say that your the best and your cute. She may flirt or even let you get close with her emotionally. How ever do not be fooled by this, as it is a lie. She will not date you, she will never will. Because nobody escapes the friendzone. Biggest indicator is if she says this: I wish I could meet a guy like you. You've been warned.

I think you guys should start texting and you should get to know her better. Find out if you really like her as a person first. Don't worry about what she's thinking and whether or not she likes you. Just find out how you really feel about her. Then start hanging out from there. Go to a few cool places. No need to be awkward and ask her straight up. And no need to stress about it. Let things happen naturally and just have fun with her around. You never know what it might lead to.

Almost in the same situation, but with 2 differences: 1) She's not as huggy/touchy 2) She's not a slut or perceived as one. So far I haven't made a move, but good luck! Keep me posted so I can use the advice myself

Next time she leans on your shoulder lick her face and if she licks you back you know that she likes you. Works every time

5 guys at once? Pics of her please

Nobody here would know better than she would. Ask her.

Don't do it fam, trust me! You're still too young for a girls BS.

Ditch her while you can. Been there before, huge waste of time.

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Tell her your going on a date and see her reaction...