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6/25/2019 6:50:34 AM
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Thinking about becoming a Trans Women/Lesbian
Hello all of my Destiny friends! Lately I’ve had more and more thought about becoming a Trans Woman, currently I am a 22 year old white male. This is the first place I thought about writing to and talking to this amazing community I’ve been a part of since Destiny 1. I don’t even know where to begin because I’m still pretty confused in my mind right now. But over the past couple weeks I’ve had more and more feminine thoughts and what it would be like to have breasts and a vagina, smooth skin and be socially acceptable to shave (everywhere). I’ve always wanted to shave my legs and Private area but as a man it’s weird to do that. I don’t really care about makeup (yet) and I’m still interested in women sexually. I just love women, everything about them is so comforting and I’ve thought about what it would be like to be a woman. I’d definitely be a lesbian cause no way I could date a man, that’s just not how I feel personally.
Anyways you amazing community, please post comments and really anything that comes to your mind. Any hate or disrespect will be reported and not tolerated. I’m looking for support from this amazing community that I’ve seen with my own eyes over the last 5-6 years.
Love you all!
I’ve really been thinking about this strongly for about 2-3 weeks. Can’t wait to read your comments! ❤️❤️❤️
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#Offtopic
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Edited by FadingBlink1013: 6/30/2019 12:34:19 AMThis is the first place I thought about writing to and talking to this amazing community That's where your wrong.
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2 things. 1. This is Offtopic, we do not affiliate with Destiny 2. Just don't. It's perfectly acceptable for a man to shave. And these thoughts just mean that you want a partner in life, that is all.
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Stop it. get some help...
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Nope. Don't do it.
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1 ReplyEdited by RingLeader77: 6/25/2019 7:48:24 AMEh, bad bait
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[quote]... and be socially acceptable to shave (everywhere). I’ve always wanted to shave my legs and Private area but as a man it’s weird to do that.[/quote] I think it's a lot more "socially acceptable" for a man to be hairless than it is for him to be natural for lack of a better word. I know I always get my manscaping done before I go to the pool or beach (I'd hate to embarrass my daughter if she had to be seen with me in public with an unshaven body). Most male actors, models, musicians etc look like they have as much body hair as a 12 year old boy. There's no way all of them are naturally that hairless. That's my only comment on this post. If you're really serious about this, we are the last people to be asking for advice. Talk to your parents, then a mental health professional (not saying you're crazy or have a disease) but from what I understand about the transitioning process you have to have someone recommend you for the surgeries and stuff. You can't just elect to have this done on your own. Other than that, I'm not touching any of this with a ten foot pole. Good luck, and I hope you choose whatever you need to do to make you happy being you.
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25 RepliesOk, first off, as a grown ass man here, there is nothing wrong with shaving the downstairs and a lot of women prefer to play there when it is clean & smooth. While I do not go for that, since I am a going commando type of guy, I must keep the pelt neatly trimmed or feel the wrath of my zipper! Secondly, almost everyone woman I have ever met or been with has wondered what it would be like to have man parts, so therefore, so men will have the same feelings, it does not mean you want to become a woman, per se. Third, shaving everywhere is acceptable now. It is called manscaping, I think, not sure. Anyways, it is allowed and you do not lose your man card, though your boys might tease you, which if they did not, they never were your boys to begin with. I personally shave my armpits, keeps the smell down. Finally, if you want to be a chick, go be a chick. If you do not, but want to have most those things you listed and still be with women, then probably might want to avoid the whole surgery and drugs that make John Thomas a linguine. [spoiler]Are you an alt of the bear guy, because your post is very, very similar to his first post......[/spoiler]
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use soap.
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Well how long have you had these thoughts. Can you look back over your life and see that what you are feeling has been present thru most of your life?
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19 RepliesYou came to the wrong place if you’re after support. Offtopic is majorly transphobic.
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2 RepliesJust think long and hard before you do anything you can't undo.
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2 RepliesDon't do it, look at the suicide rates of people after transition or how depressed they are
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3 RepliesWait you want to become a girl so you can -blam!- girls?
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1 ReplyI literally can't tell if this is a troll post or serious. That's how -blam!-ed up we are as a society anymore.
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Genital mutilation is not a sex change.
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Edited by The Dragon: 6/27/2019 12:42:30 PM
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I'd give it a lot more thought. From what I've read, most people regret those surgeries because they're extremely painful after and have many health issues and constantly try to close up. I think you might be fetishizing the female body a bit tbh.
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27 Replies... Damn, all these low quality trolls are making me sad... [spoiler]not included in the DLC[/spoiler]
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Just do it head straight to the surgeon I bet you can find a 24 hour spot
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Edited by Liam_the_Censor: 6/25/2019 6:52:40 PMGo balls to the wall with whatever y-... oh, right, trying to be a woman...
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Wait till your brain is developed
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1 ReplyWhatever you decide, it has to be what is best for you. I wish you luck w whatever your decision is in the end.
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1 ReplyYou’ll probably wanna give this months of thinking over, not just a few weeks. This is a major life altering choice, don’t be stupid and rush it. If you wanna shave, do it, your body, besides, I know guys who don’t even grow much leg/arm hair if any at all. Hair on your body hardly even means anything besides the fact you have hair on your body. It’s not the end of the world if you don’t have hair. Don’t let your in the moment emotions decide your fate. Emotions are not truth, just how you currently feel. Emotions should not always be the deciding factor, they are important, but not always right.
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2 RepliesWell you already sound pretty feminine and you seem like you really want it, so why not?
