Why the in hell is it that 11 years after I fell in love with this girl I am still in -blam!-ing love with her? We have been a lot of things in the past 11 years but we have never been 'together'. For goodness sake I have been in 2 serious relationships and met many other awesome people within this time frame and I have never felt what I feel for her. What the hell?? I try so hard, I lie to myself to make it better, but time and time again I realize just how I am so irrationally in love with her.
It's been striking me hard lately and I just don't get it. I'm starting to think I will never move on. -blam!-s sake man I just had to vent. I live in a new state now and I don't have anyone to talk to. Damn it
Edit: I'm not crying out in desperation, just voicing my complete and utter frustration. Probably the God damn wine.
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The loneliness makes you more attached to people you used to be close to. Source: same.
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I'd say time is the most unfair thing in the world for a human being. On topic...well... is there a reason you aren't pursuing? Idc if she has someone in her life already. If you truly [b]believe [/b] you could make her happier... well.. time to prove it. Time to really [b]try [/b]. Do it soon, before your [b]time[/b] is up.
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Love is useless.
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2 RepliesGod I hope this doesn't become me.
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2 RepliesNever had this problem with women. Then again, I am as gay as my d--k is long. So, seeing as I'm not gay I say you should hit that.
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2 RepliesHave you ever told her?
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1 ReplyLove is a chemical reaction. That shit hits hard and then fades aaaway. I say you indulge yourself in cocaine and hookers. Or church and get at some religious freaks and I don't mean religious freaks as in they get down on their knees for only Jesus (;
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1 ReplyLove is a 2 way street and you went down a dead end. Move on bud.
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You probably wont ever get over her. I have a gf and there are girls i havent gotten over yet, and i havent even dated them.
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4 RepliesAt least u didn't fall in love with a barista at Starbucks, only to have her die. She was amazing, and recorded this song for me before she passed... https://youtu.be/DLzxrzFCyOs
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5 RepliesWhat is love? [spoiler]baby don't hurt me[/spoiler][spoiler]don't hurt me[/spoiler][spoiler]no more[/spoiler]
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Not only is love unfair but Love is also I guess. Let's get married I guess Let's have kids I guess Let's feed the kids I guess Everyday I guess Let's celebrate anniversaries I guess
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Women are a whole lot like alligators. Fickle when hungry, and might try to kill you. The only difference is that women will be more discreet about it.
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5 RepliesCuz she's the one.
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1 ReplyBut if it's unfair for everyone wouldn't it be fair? 🤔🤔
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1 ReplyLove cheated. You must use hacks in life AKA pocket puss
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1 ReplyEdited by crazeeavery: 7/21/2017 8:24:05 PM
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7 RepliesSo why aren't you together?
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All's fair in love and war.
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Our minds are cruelly complex.
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Use more explosives and try again
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ohh yeah? try being blind and playing hide an seek.
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2 RepliesI still care about someone who I thought was the one. It's been over 20 years. I've moved on, married someone else, had kids and grandkids. The pain fades over time but the feelings never really go away. Just try to meet new people, eventually you will feel that way for someone else.
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4 RepliesIrrationally in love? That's all love is. Though, I can relate. I said I wouldn't, but I did. Best you can do is talk to her. Miss 100% of the shots you never take type deal.
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3 RepliesHow come she isn't your wife?
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Blowing stuff up could help.