Both the -blam!-ing parents god why do you all always try to make this a fight between females and males.

The black and white attitudes on abortion is disgusting. The total pro abortion people are ones who wish to live with no consequences in their life. Had a one night stand with a stud and got pregnant? Just kill it then get back on that horse with someone else you "regret" getting with. They want all the benefits of sex but none of the consequences. Thats not how anything in reality works. Now is it safe to say that accidents happen, sure, however that does not mean you can magically get rid of that accident. If someone takes a drug and has a stroke when they were at risk and knew of the risk they are stuck with that brain damage. If you willingly take a risk and know of the risks you are responsible for your actions. One of the doritos ads during this recent super bowl was declared "anti abortion" because it showed a 9 month old baby coming out for doritos. [b]9 months old[/b] I thought babies werent babies until after 3 months of pregnancy? Now its nine months? Really? What about 3 years old, i mean they cant speak well or make decisions that makes them no different than animals right? Its sickening to see that a 9 month old pregnancy is declared anti abortion. Now i doubt anyone has kept reading because there are so many liberal sjw's here but the total anti abortion proponents are just as wrong. Pregnancy can be dangerous. Pregnancies can fail horribly and sometimes the woman and the baby are both in danger. Women get -blam!- and pregnancies can fail very easily. A total ban on abortion is lunacy. My mother had an abortion because she had a tubal pregnancy. If she tried to carry, lets just say him as it was very early too early to determine the sex, to term she certainly would have died and the baby would have as well. Is it right to let either suffer or even die when the diagnosis is obvious? No. No it is not. As i stated earlier women get -blam!-. It is not fair for them to be forced to carry the child of their attacker. Middle ground is needed in abortion. You cannot just abort babies simply because you want no consequences, it is a human life and it is your responsibility. However if there is a legitimate risk to either mother or child or both it must be taken into consideration and not be restricted. If it is forced upon a woman it is not her responsibility to keep the child of her attacker. The other argument is diseases and mutations. Personally i am mixed. If a baby will die shortly after its born or when it is young is it right to let it suffer? Yet at the same time abnormalities and deformities even genetic diseases cannot be wiped out entirely. And does a deformity instantly mean death? What if steven hawkings mother knew of his disease before he was born? What would have happened if she decided to abort one of the greatest minds we have? I cannot form a stance here but i know that eliminating any baby for every potential problem is wrong. Yet if it means death or an inhuman existence of pain and suffering then shouldnt we do something? I dont know nor do i know how you go about classifying and categorizing all of those issues. Men and womens rights and say on abortion and children should be equal. Yet it is not always that way. Lets say a woman pokes a hole in the condom or forces the discarded sperm into her womb. The man should not have financial responsibilities for being tricked. But killing the baby willy nilly is not right. Now lets say a woman has a child but is at risk of death for carrying. The man does not have the ability to say that she must keep the baby and risk a almost certain death. This becomes tricky as all parties must be taken into account. This post has gotten long so I will end it there. I am sure i will receive hate from both sides but its important to note that not everything is black and white. Extreme anti abortion is cruel and ignores real world problems while extreme pro abortion is just as cruel and creates a no consequence mentality at the cost of a life.

I'm a guy and I think men don't deserve the right to choose. If you weren't daft and actually wrapped your shaft you wouldn't have experienced this issue in the first place. If it didn't work, buy better, or put on two for gods sake. And regardless whether it's used for pleasure or not, it's how we breed. Excuse nature if that's what happens. So if you don't wanna be a father, too bad. Maybe you should've kept your dick in your pants.

The father should have the same time period to back out. If she wants to have the baby against the fathers will and the father puts in the paperwork within the abortion time. She would be giving up any legal right to his money or support. It's her choice and his life.

We see here that #offtopic is mainly male

I don't understand

How about... Not allowing arbitrary abortion? Sex is biologically for reproducing. If you have it for arbitrary reasons (for the good feeling), and get pregnant because of it, you shouldnt be able to get an arbitrary abortion just because you dont feel like having a baby after having sex for the feeling. Having sex shouldnt be seen as such a trivial thing. If you partake in it, you should be responsible enough to deal with yohr horribly idiotic decision. Dont bring someone into the world, and yes its a person once the zygote is formed because it is almost garunteed to become a human with modern medicine, if you cant be grown up enough to bear it. If your parents got divorce, you wouldnt be around. Grow up enough to realize the sacrifice, responsibility, love, compassion, and selflessness your parents had to have to raise and at least be mature enough to do the same and raise a child of your own, the least you can do is give it up for adoption to a family that will actually love it and give it the care it needs. [spoiler]im 15 and male, if you are going to counter argue me by trying to discredit me personally, i just made it that much easier[/spoiler] Dont get me wrong, im allllll for abortions when they are needed or in actually justified situations, but not an arbitrary abortion by some 19 year old cause she couldnt keep legs shut at a college party after consuming copious amounts of alcohol.

Where is the "They both got to agree cause they both gotta want to be a parent" option?