What?.... It's obvious you don't do GM nightfall runs.

Nah, looks too brutal. I like having fun not dying every second.

I just can’t find anyone to do or teach them lol

Have you watched esoterick's videos? He always rocks a warlock but he will show you his complete load out. You can see his strategies for a lot of content. Another one is chablo91. He does the same and is a console player. They put up some great videos with chablo91 being more diverse in his load outs. There is some great knowledge on youtube for pve players to gain. These two guys get to the point. I'm sure there are others as well. They might teach you something and help open the game up for you.