Don't forget the "squeaker" who doesn't talk much, can help by explaining how everything works when asked, and doesn't have a problem running back and forth reviving people while they learn the jumping puzzles. Or the "female" who is patient, chill, and funny and comes in and rescues your 5 man team's Templar Challenge attempt by flawlessly running the relic and covering both teleport spots. Or the father with his two preteen kids who explains exactly what's up in his game post without mentioning that the kids are polite, friendly, and better players than most of the rest of the team. One of my first raiding experiences was with a group of guys that knew that I was basically a carry, so they gave me a job I could handle. I was the judge of the "your mother" joke competition. There's a lot of great people in the Destiny community. If you don't keep an open mind you're only hurting yourself.