Why do girls always gravitate towards assholes? I don't want to offend anyone, as i have a met some very nice females here, but i just don't get it.
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18 commentairesI'm so sorry for the following insane rant: It's amazing, truly, these terms. "Nice guys" are nice guys because they say so. "Assholes" are assholes because nice guys say so. Forgive me for saying but a startling amount of self-proclaimed "nice guys" that I've met are the furthest thing from nice. Yeah, some women choose WRONG. An actual asshole might be abusive, unfaithful, unsupportive, etc. But that's not what most men mean when they bitch about how women choose "assholes." What they are really whining about is that they didn't cosmically get assigned a super hawt (aka "10") lady just by virtue of existing. Simply existing doesn't make you nice. Never arguing, never making waves, being a perfectly agreeable pollyanna- these don't make you nice either. Standing up for what you believe, helping people who need it, working for a better world, trying, doing, caring- THESE require assertiveness, courage, confidence, and inner strength. And yet those things are associated with "assholes." Why do we all somehow think that being nothing and doing nothing makes us "nice?" What the -blam!- is "nice" anyway? Like, "nice day today?" You say that on a day you're never going to remember. On a day that imprints itself in your memory, the PERFECT day, you don't waste your time with bland words like "Nice." I believe it's the same with men and women. I say people are "Nice" when I have literally nothing else to say about them.
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Depends on what kind of a.hole you're talking about. Depending on the ladies maturity levels, if a person portrays confidence then us ladies will be drawn towards him straight away. You don't really get to find out much about the person straight away if you're young, because you want to be in a relationship with them. If you're a little more mature and you know what to look for, confidence will be a minor trait you look for. That's when intelligence, wit, humour come in.
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Because they love salad
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1 commentaireYou want the real answer? Because by natures design females tend to look for the alpha male, and alpha males tend to be -blam!-sacks. Butttttt in today's society it isn't the big ass alpha male that can provide the best. It's the intelligent male. Sooo that's why young girls tend to look for the jock, alpha male douche nozzles. Because they are confident and attractive. But later in life usually gravitate towards nice guys that can provide and settle down with. TLDR - if you're a nice guy, wait till your 30
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2 commentairesBecause self proclaimed nice guys make threads like this. My god, it's pathetic. Just because you view yourself as being a nice person, doesn't mean you're entitled to women. Plenty of guys go for the horrible, hot chick.
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3 commentairesBecause assholes are good looking and actually have penises. That's all there is to it.
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4 commentairesModifié par Simon Epic145 : 10/20/2015 7:33:41 AMIt's hard to say XD
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3 commentairesWhat if the guy isn't an asshole?Maybe you just see him that way? I knew two guys,they were both into me and both insisted the other one was an asshole.They obviously couldn't both be right.
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I have no idea either. A while back I was getting a nosh off some bird then suddenly she just starts stroking it. It was okay, I guess, but initially I freaked out like "what the f[b]u[/b]ck was that!?"
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2 commentairesHow many fedoras were you wearing when you wrote this?
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A nice guy can have confidence. Nothing in the rule book states otherwise. I think it would have been better to ask, why do women seem to like to get their asses beat and verbally abused and stay with the douche? Quite honestly I wouldn't want anyone who is dumb enough to stick around a douche like that. Trying to fix some mentally scarred chic is too much damn work and not worth the hassle when you can go out and find someone who doesn't carry a large mental baggage.
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3 commentairesGirls like a guy who's confident.
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Because men with personality and caring are not always the hottest. So, girls decide to be bitches and say "Next best thing, a asshole with no personality and will probably beat me half to death"
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9 commentairesDo not worry OP. Love is merely a social construct. With the average human life-span being roughly 70, you only have to endure another 50 years of excruciatingly unforgivable pain. Everything is temporary. Your life does not matter, and these comments do not matter. Everything is temporary. Everything will eventually rot away. As long as the factor of time continues being the apex predator of the universe, the inevitable decay of all pain and memory is unstoppable. In fact, you could stop the pain at this very moment, by putting a bullet straight through your head. Being a Fat Bastard, I will never die, and I will never be able to experience the sweet release of death. OP, the world is a lie. Existence is a lie. There is only pain and darkness beyond this point. End it now, while you still can, I love you. I love you so mu-"
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Its cuz a holes are the only ones with confidence & bravado
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cause bewbs
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Because da booty is too stronk
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Girls do not simply walk into #Offtopic
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1 commentaireI is a TadPaul
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Yeah and than us nice guys are always there to comfort them when we get friend zoned and they get cheated on
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Well seeing as that's how you take a shit I assume that's why girls go towards the asshole so he can take a shit on their life lol
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Fire has the answers
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Confidence.
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4 commentairesThey don't gravitate towards them due to their asshattery, they gravitate towards them because most assholes are very confident. Confidence is key.
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Modifié par Shelbsskull23 : 10/3/2015 9:32:13 PMbc they think they can change them to their liking and then they become assholes, start stalking, and then stab a bitch
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Because we think we can fix them & change them