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Modifié par JayJ9Nine :
10/8/2014 1:59:25 AM
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How'd your first Relationship go?
People of the Flood, I wish to know more about you all. For some reason...
For those of you that have had a first Relationship, how did it go? You guys still together? If not what wasn't working?
Edit: I realized I failed to include my own.
Warning. It's long.
My first Relationship lasted maybe 3 weeks. I was friends with a neighbor who was a grade above me, we'd hang out, play flashlight tag and whenever she had problems she'd usually vent to me and I'd give my 2 cents. One day we were walking along the street and she told me she was in love with me. Well I was in eight grade and.. earnestly had no idea how to respond. So what did I do? I stopped in the street, stood there for 2 minutes and continued walking and ignored her statement like an asshole for 4 months out of fear of ruining the friendship.
Well I eventually asked her out, but I was still scared to actually do anything... couple like. I was scared to be alone with her and I never took the initial step, and we broke up 3 weeks later since I had been passively avoiding her.
Cringe worthy, eh?
Double Edit: all your stories got sad at the same time! ;_;
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[quote]People of the Flood, I wish to know more about you all. For some reason... For those of you that have had a first Relationship, how did it go? You guys still together? If not what wasn't working? Edit: I realized I failed to include my own. Warning. It's long. My first Relationship lasted maybe 3 weeks. I was friends with a neighbor who was a grade above me, we'd hang out, play flashlight tag and whenever she had problems she'd usually vent to me and I'd give my 2 cents. One day we were walking along the street and she told me she was in love with me. Well I was in eight grade and.. earnestly had no idea how to respond. So what did I do? I stopped in the street, stood there for 2 minutes and continued walking and ignored her statement like an asshole for 4 months out of fear of ruining the friendship. Well I eventually asked her out, but I was still scared to actually do anything... couple like. I was scared to be alone with her and I never took the initial step, and we broke up 3 weeks later since I had been passively avoiding her. Cringe worthy, eh? Double Edit: all your stories got sad at the same time! ;_;[/quote] 6 years strong. The key to a perfect relationship is that you and your significant other have truly got to want the same things out of life.
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2 commentairesYou really want to know? I'd consider my first actual relationship to be this year. I've just been a flirt in the past and never had anything serious. Well, I decided to attend a little church camp before I'd go off to college. There I met my soon-to-be short-term girlfriend. We were all sitting in a dark candle-lit room and she was all by herself. I decided to go talk to her, and she opened up to me in like a heartbeat. After camp, we began talking and within two weeks, we were together. I only had like three weeks left before I'd have to go to college so I spent as much time with her as I could. A day before I left, she and her mom got into an argument and decided that she wanted to move back in with her dad. She doesn't know how to drive, so I offered my time to pick her up and bring her where she needed to be. After I dropped her off, and before I could get to my car's door, she ran up to and gave me one last kiss. That was the greatest memory I had with her, as shit went downhill fast. When I got up to my college, things were going fine for a little while. We talked everyday and everything was normal. Within two weeks, things were changing. She began talking to me less and just seemed to be distancing herself. 5 days before our anniversary, I decided to confront her about shit that was going on (her ex started talking to her more and posted a sex video with just her name tagged in it on Facebook). Not two minutes later, she sent me a message saying we should just stay friends. Didn't give me a clear reason, even though I fuc[b]k[/b]ing knew what was going on. Life was miserable for me for the next couple of weeks. I just wanted to someone to put a gun to my head, and I couldn't get shit done with my school work. Not a week after she crushed my heart, the bastard was caught cheating on her. I started talking to her again and last week went down there to see her. She finally told me that she cheated on me for a guy who she thought loved her. Was basically choosing between him and me. I knew, was still hurt, yet I forgave her. I told her that I wanted to get back together, in which she replied she didn't want anything serious right now. Reluctantly, I agreed. We were talking more this week, mainly on Snapchat, and on the day that I finally reached the top of her best friends list again, guess who shows up? The same mofo who got her to cheat on me and then cheated on her. Apparently he can't stand her talking to someone more than him even though both of their past relationships didn't work out. Now she's ignoring me just like she did before. She knows how good I treat her, and how I'm the right guy. She even said she regretted her choice, yet she's talking to this asshole again. I'm back in a deep depression and just can't get out.
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Modifié par Candlestyx : 10/8/2014 10:00:55 AMLasted a total of 9 months before she moved back to Oklahoma to be with family. She wanted me to come with but my family and college were here in Iowa. We broke off on good terms and still talk.
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2 commentairesI had a one night stand with myself, which was the fright of a lifetime.
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So 2.4 weeks of awkward conversation we wanted it to work but what can you do in the 3rd grade right? Jk sophomore yr
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Ive actually never had a relationship. Ive had girlfriends but those lasted about a week or 2.
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It was cool. We're still homies
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2 commentaires>implying anyone in the flood has had a relationship
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I've never REALLY been in one...these flings and sh*t don't really say relationship to me. I've had 2 girls in my life so far whom I had known a while and felt "strongly" about,and again, those were flings. One of those girls,I did the things a couple does with her, but we weren't "official" She was the closest thing I had to a best friend a one point in time and I much enjoyed when we were "talking" as we called it then, but long story short, she pretty much crushed me. still wish I never met her sometimes, but it made me wiser. Other than that, No relationships.
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It was okay, left on bad terms but we both apologized a bit down the line. We're still sort of friends, albeit not that close anymore. She ended up dating my best friend.
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1 commentaireModifié par Predator5791 : 10/8/2014 3:57:49 AM[b] [/b]
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8 commentairesModifié par Demigod : 10/8/2014 1:56:38 AM>Be me >20 and never had a gf due to emotional detachment >Joining the police in 3 weeks when I turn 21 so that I can have a better quality of living and pay for degree >Best friend got shafted by the military and now has to go to fight ISIS >All other friends have become deadbeats or moved >Family turned it's back on my dad and I ages ago >Just my dad and I trying to survive since >Dad unable to move with me due to his health >Looking at what I own that I might take with me >See my dog's old collar hanging on the wall >I had raised him ever since he was 1 day old, bottle fed him because he was too weak to nurse his mother >Grew up to be the best dog I've ever had (been around, and sold dogs since I was a kid) >One day he gets shocked because his choke chain collar got caught on this shitty old heater >Triggers heart attacks >We didn't have money for a vet so I had to watch him suffer before I had to put him down myself >I had cried for the first time since I was child >Now I look at the chain remembering the little buddy I had lost >Realize that I haven't had a real emotional connection with anyone since I was 10 >It sinks in that I am now going to have to face the world all alone >Mfw I am wallowing in loneliness
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Modifié par Mavrick : 10/8/2014 3:38:58 AMI've never been in a relationship. I worked and had money. While my friends had crazy girlfriends and no money. Im 20. Man I wanna girlfriend.
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4 commentairesI had my Xbox 360 and we had lots of fun together. I would always love to play with her for so many hours straight and never seem to get board. One day though, I met Xbox One. I tried to keep our relationship away from 360, but soon One took up all of my time. I had almost completely lost my love with 360 until Far Cry 3 tried to patch our love, but after she left, I knew it was over. :'(
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1 commentaireAlmost literally stuck it in her pooper. I was 15 and confused.
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First serious relationship? Kinda complicated. So I was dating a girl from another school last year during the summer and we were pretty happy together, that is, until football season started. We couldn't see each other much because I had practice until 6 every night, and she started to accuse me of being distant, unfaithful, not interested her anymore, all that fun stuff. I told her that football was in the way and as soon as the season ended, we could be together more often. So once it was over, we started going out more often again. However, then she starts calling me clingy and obsessed with her. Wondering what the hell was with the double standard, I started getting some information from her friends, trying to find out if something was up. turns out, there was. The bitch was cheating on me. Luckily, I knew the guy pretty well, so I confronted him on it and I found out from him that he didn't even know I was already with her. The next day, we both called her on her lie and completely crushed her soul. And god, did it feel good. Then, to make her feel worse, I dated her best friend from that December until I thought to myself, "why the hell am I even with this girl anymore? I got the revenge I wanted, and I don't like this bitch." So I dumped her too. Good times.
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2 commentairesits going pretty good. shes still head over heels for me. *evil laughs* muhahahahaha
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Though I don't think it can be called anything romantic at all, I had a female best-friend in my elementary school when I was younger, for about three and a half years. At some point she moved somewhere else in the city, and so our friendship just abruptly ended. Besides one time like maybe half a year later, I haven't ever seen her in the ~7-8 years since.
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5 commentairesModifié par wyotim : 10/8/2014 2:56:59 AMMine was a bit brutal. My first girlfriend got drunk at a party and slept with some dude. We were in sixth grade at the time so it was a bit of a mind blower for me. That stuff wasn't even on my radar so I was thrust in to something I wasn't prepared to handle. Sucked. But it was part of my life and the experience shaped who I am today. Edit: Forgot to add that we are not still together. :-)
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It went alright, I guess. We grew apart after a few months.
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Good for about a 2 months then a huge misunderstanding happened
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Still together for three and a half years, I will type details later. Long story and it would be easier with a keyboard.
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It's still going.
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Kicked that bitch to the curb. [spoiler]and cried.[/spoiler]
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12 commentairesMy first boyfriend and I dated for about 6 months, and then he cheated on me with a guy. So yeah.
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Mine made out with another dude on the bus I dumped her hard she made a fake Facebook of me and things got ugly....that was like 5 years ago though so I don't really think on it much anymore uhhh let's see a later relationship she dumped me for my friends brother then turned into a guy and my last ex is apparently now pregnant with some redneck guys kid so that's neat....I don't think I've ever had a good relationship xD
