There’s this new girl at school, I didn’t think much except “A pretty laddy” and “cool, new class mate” but I never thought that we would talk with each other since I’m not really a social person We have to take the same train tho and that’s where it all started, we started to talk to each other, over months we grew closer, slowly but steadily, we also started to do group projects in school with each other which helped me a lot since I was the loner who took whatever group that still had one spot free Neither of us showed romantic interest, I didn’t even know how I felt back then, but we got to know each other and I found out she has a boyfriend, I didn’t care much but deep inside me I did somehow, her relationship lasted over three years so I didn’t want to interfere by any means and kept my safe distance After she broke up with him because he was about to cheat on her, I was filled a little bit joy, she wasn’t sad or anything like that she didn’t really care because after three years she didn’t love him that much anymore I started to make small steps again, not that I wanted or anything it just happened, she told me about a new guy she was interested in, after a few weeks this she told me this guy was an asshole and was playing with two hearts, with hers and another girls heart She ranted that she hates love over and over and I kept calming her down telling her the good aspects of love We know each other 9 months now, talking and texting daily, I kinda accepted my feelings and lately we’ve been talking more about us and what could happen in the future, I don’t know exactly how she feels, she just said she needs some time but is showing interested, I also told her I’m interested, which made her a bit happy Since summer holidays started we don’t see each other that much, once or twice a week, going out, having dates I don’t want to confess my feelings so soon, even tho she knows already how I kinda feel, all I said was “I know you’re not ready yet and willing to wait a few years since I can’t imagine living without you anyway, so, if you don’t want to get disappointed again keep that spot free for me” she answered: “I will” We’re making very small steps, but hugging her already feels magical and she’s one of nicest and prettiest girls I’ve ever met For the record, yes, perhaps I was interested back then, but I wouldn’t want to ruin her relationships

Usually when we are both recovering from really intense [YOU MUST BE 18 TO READ THIS RESPONSE. IF YOU ARE SEEING THIS MESSAGE, THAT MEANS WE HAVE DETERMINED YOU HAVE NOT REACHED THE APPROPRIATE AGE TO VIEW THIS RESPONSE. PLEASE BACK AWAY SLOWLY AND GO WATCH SPONGEBOB. THANK YOU] and her mom is just as flexible and so, I have to buy them a new kitchen table. It is at that moment that you know you are in like Flynn!

Last year at my job I wanted to get to know this one girl and eventually I walked up and started a conversation with her. When I introduced myself her face got super red and she said hi back with the nicest and softest voice I've ever heard. Immediately we connected and talked for just a little bit but with her, it felt like an eternity. Every chance I had to talk to her from that point onward I did, and she'd get red, always smile, and laugh all the time whenever we talked. Even the times where we just passed by and couldn't talk because of our job she'd wave at me with the biggest smile on her face. For the first time in my life I thought I had finally found a girl that was interested in me. Unfortunately I was wrong. Later on I had asked for her number and that's when she told me that she had a boyfriend already but still gave me her Snapchat name. I was upset, but I still added her even though that's not what I wanted. I didn't talk to her as much as I did before but I'd still say hi to her whenever I could. She ended up getting fired because she missed work too much. I still have her added and she will look at my stories on there.

Last year. Although I have since gotten over that the more I realized how much I wouldn’t like her if we were anything more. Also I’d never mess around with another man’s girl.