So me and my boyfriend recently broke up, we kept on arguing about small little things and it seems like our relationship didn't go so well till the end. The reason why we broke up is because he was too insecure and had problems whenever I played Destiny with my friends, if he is playing with me it would be ok, unless if he allows it. So two weeks ago, he went to school and allowed me to play Destiny by myself, I was playing control and clash, and I was losing every match because of randoms going negative and letting the other team win. I was getting pretty much annoyed by this, I just got frustraited and felt like getting off, a friend of mine just invited me to join her in Destiny PVP so I decided to join her, she usually plays alone by herself, so I thought to myself "Hey, he wouldn't be mad at me if I joined a girl, unless if it was a guy he would." So I joined her, and she was playing with two guys, I knew I would get in trouble since there was guys in the lobby, I told my friend about it, that my boyfriend would be mad at me, she told me "It's ok, they are religious and have girlfriends" my boyfriend only allows me to join somebody if it's only girls, or if the guys are gays, so he knows they won't hit on me. I didn't wanna sound rude to her or her friends so I stayed in couple of matches. After my boyfriend came back, he was checking his PS App to see what I was doing, and saw that I was playing with my friends... He got pretty much píssed off, and told me he no longer can trust me, he acted as in I was cheating on him, I told him she invited me without me checking who she was playing with and I didn't wanna come out rude. He told me I should of left them and just tell her I can't. She has always been nice to me so I didn't really wanna say anything negative so i stayed. My boyfriend and I ever since that, our relationship has been horrible. He told me he no longer can trust me anymore, and would be mad if he saw some guys flirting with me. I told him many times if some guy tried to flirt with me, I'll block them, but he still refused and said no. I couldn't play with any of my friends when he was gone, I only have Destiny on my PS4 so I got no other games to play, and its more fun to play with friends instead of randoms. I told him I am bored of playing with randoms and he was like "Idc just don't play with guys." He litteraly limited me from my friends and whenever I was playing, I wasn't allowed to join anybody. He even had a problem with my best friend I know in real life (who is a guy I known since childhood) We made a deal with each other, if we ever got married I would cut my friendships off with guys in real life and PSN, even though I regretted it, he then told me I am allowed to be friends that he has known in his life (who are guys) to be friends with them, and I was confused cause we made a deal I wouldn't. He told me about his friends, and I don't really like his friends, since they seemed to ignore me, and one of them acts like a jerk. One of his irl friends dated a girl just to have sex with her, and he dumped her because she didn't wanna sleep with him. I was wondering what kind of friend that is? I asked him about it too, he told me he was immature that's why he did this, but that means he is not better than any other guys on PSN I met, and for some reason he didn't mind if I was playing with them, that made no sense to me. I told my boyfriend I can play with whoever I want to, cause this was getting ridiculous, my friend who is a girl, she is allowed to play with guys and she has a boyfriend, her boyfriend didn't mind, while mine was freaking out like crazy, so we broke up over the phone and his last words to me was "... Fine, we break up." Then he ended the call immediately and quickly went on his PSN accounts and deleted me from there and on his YouTube account removed his videos with me (He made them private) I couldn't take this relationship any longer so I thought it was best to break up. Our relationship was a disaster, and he always suspected me, thinking I was cheating when I never cheated on anybody before. Now I can finally play with my PSN friends without anybody questioning me, so I feel alot better about this.
So, I'm wondering did I do the right thing by ending this relationship with him?
Also sorry for my bad english, english is not my 1st language.
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#Destiny
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2 Replieswtf is wrong with ppl.
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If he is really that insecure because of people on a game then he was probably a lousy guy in general. So to answer your question yes you did the right thing in my opinion.
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1 ReplyI'm not the boyfriend destiny deserves, but I'm the one it needs.
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3 RepliesEdited by Chainz: 2/12/2015 4:35:55 AMHe must have a baby dick
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What does this have to do with anything
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You did the right thing girl! He was lucky to have you and you didn't deserve that bullshit. I wish I was on psn bc he would approve of you playing with me :P
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So you aren't allowed to play video games with men who you'll most likely never meet? You made the right move by leaving that dude. But... You're a pushover for letting your ex basically control the moves you make. If you aren't allowed to play video games with men, I can only imagine what your daily routine is like. Maybe you both are insecure?
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Yeah I had a girlfriend who would get incredibly jealous whenever I'd hang out with my female friends. It got to a point where I was having to remember to delete my texts with some of my long-standing bro-tier friends, just because they were girls. You pretty much have to hide it as if you were actually cheating which is pretty ironic because, as a direct result, my partner suspected something fishy. If you and/or your partner aren't willing to let yourselves be a little bit vulnerable, the relationship stops being beneficial and starts to interfere with your life because there is so much fear and anxiety.
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Would you care for some D?
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#satire
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9 RepliesActually, you both were wrong in some ways. I too had this same problem. But it was the other way around.
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Edited by SenilefelineS: 2/12/2015 4:41:08 AMsorry Hun, I've never heard of a bigger loser than your bf. Hope things are looking up especially since you can actual enjoy hanging with friends now. keep your head up
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Oh dang I thought I was on the destiny app not Facebook #drama #no one cares
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Reported
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5 RepliesShow us your tìts
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Tl;dr Probably made up anyway
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Trust me girl, if your bf is that controlling about WHO YOU PLAY A VIDEOGAME WITH he is so not the rignt one for you, you made the right choice
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You can actually check if someone is with others in the fireteam before joining...... But that's not the point here.
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Edited by onemoretry: 2/12/2015 4:31:47 AMWow, you are obviously hurt and upset. If you had this issue over a game, breaking up is a great move. Don't add me, I'm a pervert. But sorry about the issues. Go dance on some male characters in the tower and send a clip to him and say it's just the beginning. Your going to raid with all men, and wipe together. Make plans to get to Crotas end, and laugh and have fun with men and women at the same time. "Never gonna slow me down, oh no I've got to keep on moving"
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2 RepliesI guarantee this isn't even a girl typing this. Just some squeaker who wants some attention! Take your sob story somewhere else!
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Lol your boyfriends a -blam!-ing maniac. You should get as far away from him as possible.
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Wheres the #troll tag?
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Yeah you did the right thing, better to be alone and happy doing what you want rather than being in a relationship that is controlled. Keep your head up Guardian, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
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1 ReplyLmao. 1. He is dumb for being controlling. Literally 0 percent of humans like being controlled. 2. You are dumb for asking if it was right to break up with him. It was.
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Pics.
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Smart move.