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2/11/2015 3:16:12 PM
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Me and my boyfriend break up story.

So me and my boyfriend recently broke up, we kept on arguing about small little things and it seems like our relationship didn't go so well till the end. The reason why we broke up is because he was too insecure and had problems whenever I played Destiny with my friends, if he is playing with me it would be ok, unless if he allows it. So two weeks ago, he went to school and allowed me to play Destiny by myself, I was playing control and clash, and I was losing every match because of randoms going negative and letting the other team win. I was getting pretty much annoyed by this, I just got frustraited and felt like getting off, a friend of mine just invited me to join her in Destiny PVP so I decided to join her, she usually plays alone by herself, so I thought to myself "Hey, he wouldn't be mad at me if I joined a girl, unless if it was a guy he would." So I joined her, and she was playing with two guys, I knew I would get in trouble since there was guys in the lobby, I told my friend about it, that my boyfriend would be mad at me, she told me "It's ok, they are religious and have girlfriends" my boyfriend only allows me to join somebody if it's only girls, or if the guys are gays, so he knows they won't hit on me. I didn't wanna sound rude to her or her friends so I stayed in couple of matches. After my boyfriend came back, he was checking his PS App to see what I was doing, and saw that I was playing with my friends... He got pretty much píssed off, and told me he no longer can trust me, he acted as in I was cheating on him, I told him she invited me without me checking who she was playing with and I didn't wanna come out rude. He told me I should of left them and just tell her I can't. She has always been nice to me so I didn't really wanna say anything negative so i stayed. My boyfriend and I ever since that, our relationship has been horrible. He told me he no longer can trust me anymore, and would be mad if he saw some guys flirting with me. I told him many times if some guy tried to flirt with me, I'll block them, but he still refused and said no. I couldn't play with any of my friends when he was gone, I only have Destiny on my PS4 so I got no other games to play, and its more fun to play with friends instead of randoms. I told him I am bored of playing with randoms and he was like "Idc just don't play with guys." He litteraly limited me from my friends and whenever I was playing, I wasn't allowed to join anybody. He even had a problem with my best friend I know in real life (who is a guy I known since childhood) We made a deal with each other, if we ever got married I would cut my friendships off with guys in real life and PSN, even though I regretted it, he then told me I am allowed to be friends that he has known in his life (who are guys) to be friends with them, and I was confused cause we made a deal I wouldn't. He told me about his friends, and I don't really like his friends, since they seemed to ignore me, and one of them acts like a jerk. One of his irl friends dated a girl just to have sex with her, and he dumped her because she didn't wanna sleep with him. I was wondering what kind of friend that is? I asked him about it too, he told me he was immature that's why he did this, but that means he is not better than any other guys on PSN I met, and for some reason he didn't mind if I was playing with them, that made no sense to me. I told my boyfriend I can play with whoever I want to, cause this was getting ridiculous, my friend who is a girl, she is allowed to play with guys and she has a boyfriend, her boyfriend didn't mind, while mine was freaking out like crazy, so we broke up over the phone and his last words to me was "... Fine, we break up." Then he ended the call immediately and quickly went on his PSN accounts and deleted me from there and on his YouTube account removed his videos with me (He made them private) I couldn't take this relationship any longer so I thought it was best to break up. Our relationship was a disaster, and he always suspected me, thinking I was cheating when I never cheated on anybody before. Now I can finally play with my PSN friends without anybody questioning me, so I feel alot better about this. So, I'm wondering did I do the right thing by ending this relationship with him? Also sorry for my bad english, english is not my 1st language.
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  • You have great new york booobs!

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  • Dudes got some mommy issues forsure, shoulda dropped his ass when he first started at that shit

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  • Show us your tits

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    • Didn't read this but...get gud.

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      • I don't mean to plant any thoughts in your mind that may not be true, so this is purely speculation. The fact that he instantly was ready to block you from all connections to him tells a lot about him. 1) He might have been preparing to break up with you for a while. The reason for this, considering his obsessive jealousy, could be completely internal, probably from something that had happened to him with another girl. 2) He's emotionally unstable. If a guy is to act like that, there's a good chance his imagination was running wild with troubling thoughts, and perhaps he was anticipating that you would find someone better than him, so to save him the embarrassment and heartbreak of knowing he wasn't good enough, he broke it off first. Overall, I would say it's completely his fault. A man stands beside his woman to flaunt her while still sending a territorial message, not in front of her to shield her from the world as if he's embarrassed or afraid that you'll leave. TL;DR You're right, he's insecure.

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      • The thing me and my friends always come to a consensus about in a relationship is that one of the things that helps keep it strong is being comfortable with each other's friends, if he limited you to never talk to anyone but girls and his friends, then he's not being too trusting to begin with. Seems more like you're trying to please him more to keep the relationship then actually having a relationship. But hey, there's a lot of things to a relationship, I know one rare example where my friend and his girlfriend don't like any of their other friends, but have been dating longer then anyone else I know.

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      • So, you're using Destiny forums as therapy session for relationship problems? This is really, reeeally stupid way to ask for comfort and advices. You should know you will get trolled, and if not, you will get some idiotic advices wich you should never ever follow. You have friends in real life for than and other family members. Stay away from forums with this kind of discussions.

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      • Yup you did the right thing. If you can't trust someone that you love to be faithful, then both people should know it's time to move on. Especially for something as trivial as playing with the opposite sex online

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      • What ethnicity is your boyfriend?

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        • This is why I choose to be alone.

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          • I'm just calling bullshit on everything

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            • "He was checking his ps app to see what I was doing" Red flag right there.

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            • You know what, you go girl You did the right thing I swear, I would be bored to death if my boyfriend did that because, well Girls whether they game or not, hate me for some odd reason So I could never live with a guy like that I would literally die

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            • ...as if we don't know you're a dude, dude.

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            • Any guy who has even the smallest amount of self esteem would not care in the slightest if you're teaming up with other guys during a video game. You certainly did the right thing by leaving and will be far better off for having done so, sad little man that he is.

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            • Well he sounds like a huge dick, he cant treat you like that, telling you who you can and cant be friends with, especially on a VIDEOGAME, you should have ended it much earlier

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            • It's called a paragraph

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            • What a asshole. You did the right thing

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            • If you guys can't see the troll here, then you must think 9+10=21. Look at this dudes profile. 3 different characters, all 32. THIS IS A SAD LONELY BOY GETTING FEELz FROM THE RESPONSES. move along lonely troll, move along.

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            • Edited by LowLiteNC: 2/12/2015 6:10:10 AM
              Good for you bitch! Bout time you stood up to the darkness! Cut all ties with his punk ass and have a good time playing with who ever you like. We will all bath in his tears! Make him regret it Guardian!

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            • If someone doesn't love you for who you are, then they don't love you. You'll meet someone else, you just gotta keep a positive attitude and be patient :)

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            • Isolating yourself from half of humanity is not healthy. Pressuring someone close to you to do so is an act of emotional violence. I hope you all the best. P.S. By gender definition I am not one to generally be called a white knight (=my gender isn't male). But I have learned that I need to be my own white Knight and protect all the good I have in my life from anyone who tries to do harm. This was more of a reply to those "white knights" comments.

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            • Dude. I had a friend that let me go make out with his girlfriend and he didn't even care. This sounds like a joke it's so bad. Relationships should make you happy not cause anxiety cause your afraid to disappoint. Be free child live your life.

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            • I stopped reading after the two of you breaking up over the people you played with over a video game. I'm sorry what kind of relationship is this? I can see spending too much time on video games causing the relationship a down fall but joining a group with male gamers ? This guy can't be serious, it's a video game. If they hit on you constantly yeah I can see him being annoyed but simply playing the game ... This forum gets weirder for me each day.

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