So me and my boyfriend recently broke up, we kept on arguing about small little things and it seems like our relationship didn't go so well till the end. The reason why we broke up is because he was too insecure and had problems whenever I played Destiny with my friends, if he is playing with me it would be ok, unless if he allows it. So two weeks ago, he went to school and allowed me to play Destiny by myself, I was playing control and clash, and I was losing every match because of randoms going negative and letting the other team win. I was getting pretty much annoyed by this, I just got frustraited and felt like getting off, a friend of mine just invited me to join her in Destiny PVP so I decided to join her, she usually plays alone by herself, so I thought to myself "Hey, he wouldn't be mad at me if I joined a girl, unless if it was a guy he would." So I joined her, and she was playing with two guys, I knew I would get in trouble since there was guys in the lobby, I told my friend about it, that my boyfriend would be mad at me, she told me "It's ok, they are religious and have girlfriends" my boyfriend only allows me to join somebody if it's only girls, or if the guys are gays, so he knows they won't hit on me. I didn't wanna sound rude to her or her friends so I stayed in couple of matches. After my boyfriend came back, he was checking his PS App to see what I was doing, and saw that I was playing with my friends... He got pretty much píssed off, and told me he no longer can trust me, he acted as in I was cheating on him, I told him she invited me without me checking who she was playing with and I didn't wanna come out rude. He told me I should of left them and just tell her I can't. She has always been nice to me so I didn't really wanna say anything negative so i stayed. My boyfriend and I ever since that, our relationship has been horrible. He told me he no longer can trust me anymore, and would be mad if he saw some guys flirting with me. I told him many times if some guy tried to flirt with me, I'll block them, but he still refused and said no. I couldn't play with any of my friends when he was gone, I only have Destiny on my PS4 so I got no other games to play, and its more fun to play with friends instead of randoms. I told him I am bored of playing with randoms and he was like "Idc just don't play with guys." He litteraly limited me from my friends and whenever I was playing, I wasn't allowed to join anybody. He even had a problem with my best friend I know in real life (who is a guy I known since childhood) We made a deal with each other, if we ever got married I would cut my friendships off with guys in real life and PSN, even though I regretted it, he then told me I am allowed to be friends that he has known in his life (who are guys) to be friends with them, and I was confused cause we made a deal I wouldn't. He told me about his friends, and I don't really like his friends, since they seemed to ignore me, and one of them acts like a jerk. One of his irl friends dated a girl just to have sex with her, and he dumped her because she didn't wanna sleep with him. I was wondering what kind of friend that is? I asked him about it too, he told me he was immature that's why he did this, but that means he is not better than any other guys on PSN I met, and for some reason he didn't mind if I was playing with them, that made no sense to me. I told my boyfriend I can play with whoever I want to, cause this was getting ridiculous, my friend who is a girl, she is allowed to play with guys and she has a boyfriend, her boyfriend didn't mind, while mine was freaking out like crazy, so we broke up over the phone and his last words to me was "... Fine, we break up." Then he ended the call immediately and quickly went on his PSN accounts and deleted me from there and on his YouTube account removed his videos with me (He made them private) I couldn't take this relationship any longer so I thought it was best to break up. Our relationship was a disaster, and he always suspected me, thinking I was cheating when I never cheated on anybody before. Now I can finally play with my PSN friends without anybody questioning me, so I feel alot better about this.
So, I'm wondering did I do the right thing by ending this relationship with him?
Also sorry for my bad english, english is not my 1st language.
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#Destiny
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47 RepliesHe had problems. No one should control you like that. You did the right thing.
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My fiance & I both have our own xboxes. We both play destiny & doesnt bother me if he talks to other girls on live. i mean alot of them have bfs or r even engaged or married
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Did not read all
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I stopped at school and "unless if it was" Dont date people over a game network
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What the -blam!- did I just read. Jesus, find a guy that has a set of nuts and doesn't treat you like property like ol boy did. Who gives a damn who you play with online, like who cares, what's he worried about you cheating on him with some random tard that lives 850 miles away, come on now, both of you need sense
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"Fine, we break up." The Last Word... His, not yours.
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Paragraphs are a real thing.
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it's xbox. if my girlfriend played and she talked to guys, that'd be fine. guys can hit on her in a video game but I have her in real life. your ex had some issues about control
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If a guy gets pissed at u for playing a video game with other guys than he needs help and you need to get out
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8 Replies1) Off topic as all hell 2) 98% sure this is made up to get sympathy and attention 3) You don't get 3 lvl 32 characters (especially with the guns yours are packing all at max level) by only playing with your boyfriend every once in awhile as you suggest. 4) Off topic as hell
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If this is real you should've left him a long time ago lol. My girlfriend tells me stories about her ex doing shit like this to her and it really pisses me off that she put up with it for as long as she did
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Is This For Real Or Are You Guys Both Idoits? -.-
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1 ReplyYour both idiots by the sound of things
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So u got 3 sets of raid gear playing alone??
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Edited by HeavenBelow: 2/12/2015 1:12:00 PMDude wat a psycho control freak
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2 RepliesHow big are your tits?
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There's always another side to this.
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My guess is he broke up with you because you spent way too much time on destiny and not enough on his d!!!!
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Can't believe I just read this? A real breakup story would be , I'm a Warlock dancing with a Titan . Boyfriend walks into tower (ohhhh Noooo) .
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Guy sounds like a true dickhead. Better off out. Find a normal dude.
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You did the right thing.
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4 RepliesHolt $hit,.... more white knights here than a KKK gathering
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Sounds like he needed to go anyway. A person shouldn't control another to the degree you described. Don't sweat it
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3 RepliesMove to off topic, not destiny related
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It's aight bae. Once we get to know each other I'll take care of you [spoiler];) lol[/spoiler]