Met a girl, she's very nice and easy to talk with, but she started to tell me about how everyone doesn't think she's attractive, and from my views, I'm not very attracted to her either. I don't mind talking with her, but I can't say she's attractive if it would be lying and I don't want to be a dick and tell her she's ugly.
How do I do this?
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Has being honest stopped working in this day and age?
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Just tell her you aren't attracted to her. Tell her she's very pretty, you just don't feel anything for her. Plain and simple.
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get a bj first.
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[quote]"Don't let that get to you, everyone has different tastes and finds different people attractive. There are many people out there who will find you very attractive and one of them will be your future partner. Just be strong and know you're a pretty girl" [/quote] Say what Butters said.
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If she asks, tell her you don't find her attractive.
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2 Replies[i] [/i]
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1 Reply"Have you heard of a butter face? "Well you're a butter [i]everything[/i]"
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4 RepliesTroll thread alert. 90% of this forum would -blam!- a cat if it walked past them the right way.
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Love, ya jus don't get ma will hard. Know what im sayin?
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You don't ever tell a girl that she's unattractive. Shit can go bad.
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Edited by Cart of Onions: 9/23/2013 3:16:52 AMwalk up to her and say "I don't find you attractive" if she speaks a different language then you've got yourself a problem.
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"I am gay"
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I think she likes you, and this is her insecure way of flirting.
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Just be honest and say it you'll regret having a awkward friend being around like I have if you don't.
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1 ReplyEdited by Butters: 9/23/2013 3:41:13 AM"Don't let that get to you, everyone has different tastes and finds different people attractive. There are many people out there who will find you very attractive and one of them will be your future partner. Just be strong and know you're a pretty girl" It avoids suggesting that you have any attraction to her but helps give some hope.
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3 Replies"Go away" tends to work.
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2 RepliesEdited by H 1 T M A N 182: 9/23/2013 8:17:09 AMDon't say anything about attractiveness. This is what we call a loose-loose situation. Instead make general remark to change subject, almost like you never heard her. Sounds cold, but its better than the alternative.
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Just say your not interested in her that way or that not everyone is attracted to same kind of people for a unexplainable reason.mabye
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Tell her, "Welcome to the friendzone." And move on
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Dude there was this ugly chick hitting on me in high school and I just ignored her and she went away. Do that.
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"Guuuuuurl, you so ugly dat dora would never wanna explore ya."
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Just say you don't find her attractive, in [i]your[/i] opinion, but reassure her that someone else very well could. Beauty isn't universal, we aren't all attracted to the exact same things.
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" I'm not attracted to you" Just don't say, you're not attractive, it means something different.
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You can probably just fling feces at her until she gets it.
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"Everyone has different tastes."
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1 ReplyDon't return her calls. [spoiler]She'll get the message.[/spoiler]