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Edited by HelloImMe24:
5/10/2016 3:31:57 PM
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If your partner said you could date other people(while dating them), would you?
I told my boyfriend that he could date another girl while dating me if he wanted. He refused. So I'm wondering how many people would jump at the chance to do it.
No, this doesnt mean It opens it up both ways.
Edit: Wow guys, thank you. I would have never guess this community is so supporting and caring lol. ^.^
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#Offtopic
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"It's a trap!"
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You can never get enough of what you don't need to make you happy. Your post says more about you than anything else. I simply would not want to be in a serious or casual relationship with somebody that would say things of that nature and behave in that manner. For me, no good would come from this type of relationship. Only suffering. Like I said... You can never get enough of what you don't need to make you happy.
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[b] [/b]
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I'd keep it in mind for if I was ever in a situation where I have a strong desire for somebody else.
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Date? No. One girlfriend is enough problems for one man to handle. No strings attached sex? Sign me up.
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2 RepliesEven if it wasn't a trick and I really could, I wouldn't. Besides, I can barely find one person to like me that way, where am I gonna find a second?
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It's a trap
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Poly or nothing. But I'd agree only if they agree to the same. And some other things like being careful about STIs
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Lel The lieing is real.
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Yes I would. Nothing wrong with open relationships. The whole concept of one person for decades is insane and completely against our biological nature. Most people who are against are likely the "reacher" in their relationships. Marriage is also nothing more than a money grab created by the church too.
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3 RepliesDon't know I've never been in a relationship
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I would say "ok" and break up with her and go with someone else. If she thinks that's moral, then it's only a matter of time until she goes ahead and does it herself. [i]Bye bye. [/i]
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There is only one helicopter for me
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Nah the lag starts getting real.
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Edited by Ahhsenberg: 5/10/2016 9:09:39 AMAnd to clarify on this, she only said that(even after all the years I've been with her) because she feels I'm out of her league. Of course I said no and called her ridiculous. >_< Thank you all for trying to make her see the light like I have - I now have a bit more hope for this place.
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Loaded question is loaded [spoiler]any bf that said ok I'll talk to other girls just started a huge fight [/spoiler]
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I don't believe I could be emotionally intimate with more than one girl even if I wanted to. cx I just kinda' get attached and focused on whoever I'm interested in. However, if the girl I were with were to tell me I could get involved with other people (assuming that she doesn't at all secretly mind in this hypothetical situation), I wouldn't mind getting physically intimate with other girls. But even still, my main girl is my main girl.
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Threesome
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2 RepliesSuch a statement (to me) is an opening to a very long, and probably quite a few, in depth conversations. Just hearing "you can date/see other people" isn't enough to get me starting to get phone numbers and trying to hook up with others. I would want and need to clearly know what is on her mind, what she thinks and feels about us and our relationship, to explain and understand the trust issues involved in such a thing, how feelings and egos and even our relationship could be harmed (or improved), and not only would I absolutely need to know her thoughts and feelings about the subject, I would want her to know and understand mine as well. Open relationships, swinging, polyamory, and other examples are complicated. But so are people. I have learned that the idea of "there is one person who can fulfill each and every one of your needs and desires" is a nice fantasy, but in reality, we all compromise and accept that in a relationship between two people, there are always going to be desires, wants and needs that the other can't provide. For most people, the best solution is to accept and compromise on those "gaps", and that is how/why long-lasting relationships are able to work. It's very rare to have two people who have enough mutual trust, openness, understanding, and honesty that are capable of knowing that their partner is intimate with someone else. And that's why, if I were to be told "you can see other people", I would absolutely want and need to have lots of honest discussion with my partner about every aspect of what that statement means.
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We've shared the same girl before, so....
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1 ReplyNope. Being married means being loyal to one another. Besides if my wife and I had an open relationship, I'm sure she would be getting laid a lot more often than I was.
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No I think it would just put an unnecessary strain on our relationship
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Would be too much stress, heck i cant even remember my moms birthday...and my sister...and my brother...list goes on.
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I don't even have one girlfriend. How the hell am I going to have two??
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2 RepliesI think 99.9999999% of guys will take that as bait. Usually when one offers this it's either to test loyalty or because the one who asked wants to cheat with another person for a little while
