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2/27/2014 5:37:55 PM
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Could you be content with being single forever?
Society has made us believe that we need to get married, have kids and settle down. However is being single an option for you? No kids, no relationships. Sexual encounters are fine.
So?
I definitely see it as an option, I like my current gf but she's not someone I would marry. Being in a relationship is also starting to piss me off, the lovely dovey shit makes me gag.
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Editado por TheQ5: 2/28/2014 11:57:12 AMI very much enjoyed being single. I've had a few serious girlfriends over the years, but I very much like only having to worry about me. Call it emotional selfishness. However, that's changed recently. One of the ladies I work with is one of the best people I've ever met. She's nice, smart, pretty, funny, puts up with my shit, can take a joke, likes the same things I do (generally), she plays games with me, and she isn't afraid of all the baggage I have. Maybe it's because I've been hurt by women a lot that I haven't wanted a serious relationship for a while. But this girl... I can see myself marrying her. And I've never felt this way about anyone before. I'm quite the misanthrope, but my relationship with her just feels right. I've known her for 2 years and we've been involved romantically since June 2013. I don't know what it is about her, but we click. And she knows it too. I think I love her, but I'm afraid to admit it (even to myself). So yes, OP, I do believe that true love is real. I hated all the lovey-dovey romantic crap for the longest time, but this lady has helped me see that I was just chasing after the wrong people. She's perfect for me and I really hope I'm right for her.
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6 RespuestasEditado por Horseman of War: 2/28/2014 3:00:08 AMSince I can't sleep... [quote] I like my current gf but she's not someone I would marry.[/quote] This is what I don't understand about dating. If you know you don't want to stay with that person then why are you still with that person? Just... Why?
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Absolutely not. Would I marry my current gf? Probably not, I'm too young to commit to never sleeping with another girl and although I love her I'm not sure she's marriage material; we argue quite a bit and we've only been seeing each other 4 months. For a relationship at 18 she's great, very hot and we have amazing sex so I'm just enjoying the ride while it lasts. Towards my late-20s/early-30s I want to settle down with a wife and have kids. I come from a broken home so I want to have one of my own that isn't; have kids and give them the happy childhood I never had.
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1 RespuestaAs long as Danielle is happy, I'm happy.
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Not anymore, no.
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Yes. If I could have a kid.
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I want to be single forever. No spending [b]my[/b] money on someone else. No being forced to interact with other people.
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No *Sips Maple Syrup*
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Absolutely not.
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I still have my hand!
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4 Respuestasare you me? I wanna stab anybody who says "awwwww"
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No. For a while, yes. I'm rather content now, but I know I need someone. It has been proven that relationships are essential for social, economical, and psychological survival.
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I want a relationship.
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I could not. Being in a relationship is too much fun :)
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No. I need love in my life, it's my favorite feeling ever.
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No, not really.
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I have this primal desire to continue my family name. My only other sibling is my sister which means that it's up to me.
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not at all
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If I can make a positive impact in the world without one then I know I'll be happy
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As long as I have money as a result.
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Well it's what I've done so far up to this point in time so sure, probably.
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5 RespuestasNo, I had a few terrible dreams lately that showed me how scared I am of being alone forever.
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Absolutely not. I couldn't live my life being alone. And you don't have to get involved in that "lovey dovey" stuff to marry someone. If you love them deep enough, you will want to spend the rest of your life with them and the fact that you never want to marry your girlfriend because it's "lovey dovey" tells me that you either aren't very devoted to her or don't love her the way you think you do, or both. I understand that marriage isn't for everyone but I really do question how deeply you love a person if you don't want to marry them. I'm not saying that you're a bad person because of that but it certainly raises questions.
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I could, but I don't want to.
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I could. But I'd rather not.
