Basically, people are too nice. Call out the bad players on the spot. Sometimes you need that one guy in the fire team who’s a d# and talks a lot of smack to rain verbal hell on some mid tier performing would be elitist snob. I’ve seen them before. Another thing is, many of these people aren’t use to confrontation, even in the Reality. In fact, it is entirely possible many of these individuals first bout with confrontation takes place completely online. It’s remarkable to say the least, however I won’t go further into the specifics. All kinds of variables start to pop up on the wider mental implications of gamers in either anti social or socially diluted circles. I’m starting to see more, “Be chill” post. As for LFG, when people say those acronyms, I assume they are talking about actual LFG site? Unless it’s just something people lump into together as one? “Fireteam” on the Bungie app is pretty decent. Seems like nothing but decent Bungie/Destiny folk. I’ve never had any problems and only ever walked away with Friends request and loot.