We have all probably been on the giving and receiving end of a scathing tirade before but do you think you or anyone else sincerely ment what was said?
Iv talked with a few others about this and the preveiling theory seems to be that people dont useally mean or believe what they say in anger but i believe this is wishful thinking.
I cant speak for others but personally i am pretty critical so when i do get angry enough to tell somebody about themselves its useally specific, backed by examples and genuinely what i think.
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1 RespuestaIt can be both. You either say things you've been wanting to say for a while or you say things just to hurt the other person.
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Of course they meant what they said.!its only afterwards that they realized they said or did something stupid.
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I always make sure to listen very carefully when someone says something in anger! You never know what can be used against them in the future!
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Idk, some people say exactly what they are thinking when angry. Some people (including myself) say things they don't really mean when angry.
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All depends.
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1 RespuestaThey mean them at the moment of saying them.
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No nuance here. Sometimes they mean it more, sometimes they're just angry.
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Editado por CobraMate: 3/24/2017 7:43:59 AMFrom my view point of course they mean it lol they just didnt know how/when to say it nicely. I wont say something I dont mean so i expect the same and I wont forget. Either good or bad. But im the type thats brutally honest, straight to the point and lives with no regrets. Fortunately for me idgaf what ppl say to me unless its beneficial to my career or detrimental to my family. Looking back reading all those zodiac sign shits...I think they might actually be true. Will you look at that. #TaurusRepresent
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Angry sex can bring out some amazing qoutes.
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They extra mean them. They just didn't mean for them to come out.
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Most of the time when people say something out of anger, it's what they've been thinking but didn't have the balls to say
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Every insult or lie usually has a little bit of Truth behind it imo
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Obviously depends. I mean what I say, regardless of emotion.
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Usually when I'm angry I say so much random stuff my brain doesn't even process what I just said
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I usually say things I mean because I'm an idiot.
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Editado por One Shot Ted: 3/23/2017 10:19:19 PMThe best way to get the unfiltered truth from someone is to make them angry. But at the same time, humans are prone to making rash decisions when they're angry, which includes saying things that they might later disagree with.
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1 RespuestaEditado por pValue2010: 3/24/2017 1:05:19 AMWell, typically the person meant it, but don't mean to have said it.
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1 RespuestaIt's not black and white. We become different people and personalities dependent on our emotional state at the time. What I say when miserable will not be in line with what I say when happy.
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Nothing is cut and dry. It can be either or
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I almost always mean what I say, regardless of emotion...
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The words are being said with the intent to hurt. Even if what they are saying isn't necessarily true, the person means what they're saying.
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Depends. The angered could be convincing themselves of flaws in a state of anger, but they could also be citing flaws they have previously seen.