[quote]So I work in oilfields in ND and i had 3 days off work ..yes its slowing down alot in the oilfields here So I played destiny for 3 days and ignored all her calls this happen few times in past 2 months.......so she calls my brother and he tells her what ive been up to. I finally get of the xbox and call her and shes saying that i dont care about are relationship anymore and how i neglect her she is kinda like the overly attached gf but what can i say shes a hottie ,cooks good, very sweet. Ok im the asshole lol but is it really that big of a deal ? What should i do to fix this? what should i tell her ?Im not gonna stop playing destiny. Im also High right now from some Good ole denver Truffles candie thingys Sorry for bad grammar[/quote] you're about the stupidest person I have seen in these cringy forums in a long time! I hope she has a real man keeping her "company" right now while you jack off to Amanda Holliday in the tower. You're one stupid, stupid man and you never deserved to date her for 4 years, much less one minute.

How did you keep a girlfriend for 4 years treating her like that?

That's what you get for playing a mediocre game over hanging out with your girlfriend.

This made me cringe more than anything in a cringe thread.

A horse wouldn't judge you or try to control your life like she did.

My spouse left me after 4 years of dating and a year of being engaged. It was late November about to be December in about 3 days. I'm working 2 shifts 1st and 2nd a cashier at Walmart and a Mop boy at the local pizzaria to help pay off my house bills. My ex didn't talk to me for a whole week that last week of November. She didn't text me, didn't come to see me, and didn't respond to my texts. So I asked if I did anything wrong that I apologize that if there was anything that I could do to help make her happy that I was there granted I'm busy but I could go see her drop work to see her smile.... she read the messege but didn't reply. I drove off into town hoping to get my mind off things and ate at waffle house to help clear my mind at least try then I looked across the street and saw her with her family and a friend from school smiling and eating so I finished my meal paid and left. I drove about 6 miles to my house...crying all the way there I was upset I don't know what I did. I felt terrible....the next day I went over to my friends house to talk with someone get the stress off my chest to relax and we just sat back played a few video games and then I decided I should go home. I drove to my house and noticed a yellow slip on the fence and I grabbed it and shined my phones light on it and it read 'Due to multiple late payments we have decided that starting 12/9/2014 we will be foreclosing your house. You have until then to pay the dues or leave.' I didn't have enough money to pay 2,000 dollars. I texted her on Friday 'Cara their taking my house in a week. I can't do anything I can't find a way to do anything I can't get help I'm just so lost I don't know what to do. I'm so scared to loose my home I've been her all my life now it's gonna be taken from me.' She texted me telling me she was tired, she was tired with dealing with me, she was tired of all the lies and all the Bullshit that came with me she told me that she was done and never wanted to see me again that she hated me. I just looked down at the ground with the phone in my hand and thought 'I guess I'm lost everything.' I started packing up all my things in the house and told my mom to bring her van so I would move in with her. She brought her van we packed everything up and left for Florida. On the way to the interstate I stopped at the red light my mom went on ahead I looked to my right to see through the McDonald's window and she was kissing another man. This actually happened 9 months ago. And it still breaks my heart

Stay out of bed or related actions with gfs. Makes separations 200% worse!!

See that's the trouble with xbox, PlayStation never got me into that kinda trouble.

Invite her to play with you! Teach her how to play. Explain to her that this is your "escape" to just have fun. If anything she shouldn't complain because you could have gone to a pub or something.