I share these exact sentiments... I thought I was the only one! Did VoG on easy twice, beat it once, never hard. Ran Crota maybe 3-4 times, never beat. Meanwhile I'm like the only person in my fireteam not dying, even though I have no idea how to do the raids, which equals crazy amounts of frusteration and kills the joy of the game for me. Since I only have so many hours a night to play, I just rather spend it on stuff I find enjoyable or something mind numbing like Patrols. I run 3 characters, with my main being a 32 hunter (once I hit Crota rank 4, gear is set, just need mats converted) and two 31's on their way to 32. 32 because I run the first part/s of the raid solo. Anyway, to each their own, just glad to know I'm not the only player out here not running the raid 6 times a week haha