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originally posted in:Sapphire
2/13/2013 1:02:17 AM
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Question for straight males (kind of NSFW I guess)
The depiction in the media is that a threesome with two girls is like the straight guy Holy Grail, right? How does this measure up in real life? Is this really something you would be interested in, or are you put off by the logistics (or just simply not that interested)? Would you do it if you had the chance?
I am totally biased as a bi girl because from my point of view, getting to play with both a guy and a lady at the same time would be [i]awesome[/i]. My only issue is that I'm pretty jealous/possessive so that might end up being a problem.
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(°_o)
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Ive done it. Its alright. I mean I'd love to do it again, but like people below me have stated, it was too much work. Nothing beats a simple BlowJay where you can just sit back and relax.
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2 RepliesEdited by The Judge: 2/17/2013 9:16:02 AMActually I wouldn't want to engage in a threesome because it seems like a lot of work. I just want to ejaculate and get it over with. Call it selfish, but that's just me. Also, you being bi is sort of irrelevant, but I'm sure you wanted to throw that out there because you think we care.
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Thats a good question, as i fantasize about it, i dont think i actually would want to do it. I only want to have sex with the girl i love and no one else.
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No not really.
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I...actually wouldn't want to have a threesome to be quite honest. My gf is more than enough lol. I just don't think sex is something that would feel right if you didn't love the person. A threesome seems like something just straight out of lust, there is no other reason why you'd do such a thing. Don't get me wrong here, if all three people are cool with it I don't mind them doing it with eachother, it is just something I wouldn't want to participate in.
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21 RepliesNope, wouldn't even think of doing it. I would consider it a highly illicit and immoral action.
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I've well, [i]kind of[/i] been in one, I guess. Personally I didn't like it because the ratio of objects to holes is what, 1:6? They have their upsides, but they aren't as good as they're made out to be.
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As much as I fantasize about it, I don't know if I could do it. Personally, I only want to have sex with someone I love. To me, it's too intimate a thing to just do with whoever casually. I have no problem with what other people do when it comes to sex - if both parties don't have a problem with it, they can do whatever they want. But for me, I only want to have sex with someone that I love. I don't think I could emotionally handle anything outside of a committed monogamous relationship.
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2 RepliesI was in a [i]foursome[/i] last summer, and for me it was mainly just incredibly hilarious. It was just a good time, nothing more and nothing less. Then again, I'm single, so I don't know how it would've been if I had strong emotions for someone...
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I am not too interested, but if the opportunity came, I might go along with it....
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Been there... Done that... It was awesome. I highly recommend.
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2 RepliesHow's about- Yes, Yes and double yes...
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I already experienced it. It's not as great as many guys would think. At least, for me, I couldn't take two at the same time. You know, like one girl on your willy and the other on your face. When the heartrate catches up, it gets really hard to breathe.
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If I could find two girls that were into it and get out of it without jealousy roaring up and biting off my bits, I'd be super down. However, I've been in a couple situations that'd be similar in strictly an observational role and even that shit caused issues. So, I don't think I'd try it in any sort of serious relationship. It would depend on the girl though.
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It'd definitely be interesting, but having multiple partners isn't something I fantasize about. It's probably different for each guy; I could see someone becoming obsessed with the idea. But media wise, I think it's just part of the the "bigger is better" conception, or at least amplified by it.
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3 RepliesThe difficulty I have encountered is if both women are hetero or somewhat uncomfortable with another woman being there. In such a situation, I found myself having to spend more time making sure that each woman was feeling equally attended to and no one was feeling slighted or "left out". No one wants to feel like they are the "second string" in such a situation. It's the same in a 1F-2M threesome. If the 2x aren't comfortable around another x? It's going to be awkward for everyone. I've also been in the situation where both women were comfortable and at ease with the situation. They were both (in their own description) "mostly lesbian" but willing to tolerate/accept a man in the mix, provided he understood the rules of the game. I ended up rooming with them and learned a great deal from those women. Much of which was humbling and potentially ego-crushing, but in the end, I learned a lot of things that I otherwise would not have. They liked having a low-stress, no ego, open to discussion and sharing male, but were more than happy to lay out the situation if I every started acting (in their eyes) "too macho". One of their favorite ways of explaining that I was there at their invitation and always on probation? "You know, we could replace you with a wind up toy, a harness, and some properly sized/shaped silicone". Which taught me how to leave my ego at the door, relax, smile, laugh, have fun, be able and willing to listen as well as talk, and to stop worrying about "who's in charge" or any sort of similar silly ego-based role. We spent a lot of time talking and laughing. It's amazing how much better intimacy can be (regardless of who's involved) when there is the ability to ask, listen, learn and openly discuss what is on your mind instead of having to play silly games or look for hidden signals.
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I think that it would be pretty cool. Hell I think that it would be -blam!-ing great to have sex with just one girl. foreveralone.jpg
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It's overrated. Don't get me wrong I would do it again but it's not all that amazing. It's more of a thing to do so you can brag about it. Like I said I wold do it again, and again, and again but it's not something I actively hunt for.
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It's something that i would be interested in, and i actually had an Ex that wanted me to get into a threesome with another girl with her so it could've happened. But there are and could be severe repercussions to it if it doesnt go so smoothly.
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2 RepliesI don't think I would have an issue with it, 2M1F or 1M2F, if my partner (if I have a partner) wants it or doesn't mind.
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Edited by Precurser: 2/14/2013 1:24:07 AM
Started a new topic: Would you be in a threesome involving another person of your gender?(7 Replies))
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2 RepliesHonestly, no. I don't think I'd have any idea what to do with two girls at the same time. I guess I wouldn't mind one with two guys and a girl if it meant enough to the girl and I didn't have to touch or make eye contact with the guy.
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Yea I'd be interested in it. It sounds like a lot of fun.
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2 RepliesI find it a little humorous that it seems most of you seem perfectly willing to have a threesome with two girls with your girlfriend/partner having to deal with the emotions it might drag up, yet rage at the idea of a threesome with two guys if your girl would suggest it. Seems a bit hypocritical in my opinion.
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[quote]I am totally biased as a bi girl because from my point of view, getting to play with both a guy and a lady at the same time would be [i]awesome[/i]. My only issue is that I'm pretty jealous/possessive so that might end up being a problem.[/quote]Dat feel. I'm not too jealous or possessive but then again, I've never had any sort of threesome while being in a relationship.
