Hey :) I am very sorry you're going through that.I am not an American but I would still like to thank you for your service and for sacrificing your health for the benefits of others. Second: I have a boyfriend and we are both actively playing Destiny,I am actually more active than him since I have more free time,perhaps you should explain her that the game actually helps you with your problems and if she does not understand than drop the relationship,it's not worth it.If you do not have someone by your side that supports you through everything then it is not worth it.I learned that from my previous relationship of 3 years where I kept trying to make it work and he didin't even bothered,I gave a ultimatum and spoke freely saying what it bothered me and what we could change,he did not do it so I moved on and now I am in a 6 years relationship and couldn't be happier,of course we have our fights like any other couple,my advice is simple,try to talk to her,explain her what the game does for you,that it helps or whatever and if she loves you she will understand,if not move on,my friend. You should not waste your time next to someone that doesn't appreciates you. [spoiler]PS: I really dislike the idea of a woman using a man like he's a ATM.A real woman would do her best to help her man not get him buy all the stuff.[/spoiler]