Oh, she demands we listen to her music? Whatever.
Oh, he does drugs? Whatever.
Oh, she's a total b[b]i[/b]tch? Whatever.
Oh, he's just using me for sex? Whatever.
Oh, she refuses to talk about important issues? Whatever.
Oh, he doesn't tell me I'm pretty? Whatever.
How can people enter into or stay in a relationship that simply isn't a good relationship? I would never date a girl who smokes, does drugs, or yells a lot. I would never date a girl who is controlling, b[b]i[/b]tchy, or rude. I would never date a girl who doesn't like to be intimate, who won't make sacrifices for me, or who abuses animals.
How can people be so lenient in their relationships?
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It all starts off great. A few months down the line you notice a few red flags but it's all okay, you're in the honeymoon period and he/she are perfect. Then you fall in love, but at the same time those flags are getting more and more. But you're in a committed relationship now and you grow used to their companionship. You tell yourself there's no one else like them. Then one day it all comes crashing down and you're left to pick the pieces up. After a bad few months you realise it was a bad relationship and you're better off without it.