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Edited by Otthild:
7/15/2014 4:09:21 AM
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Flood, it's my turn for advice
Recently I got diagnosed with depression. Things have been, for lack of a better word, hard. Since that got pinned on me, I struggle to find happiness in my daily activities. I no longer find joy in tormenting all of you and my coworkers.
As I get closer to my due date, I notice my boyfriend getting more and more distant. He won't answer my messages or hold me like he used to. Usually I'm not all touchy, feely, and all that fgt shit, but for some reason it's really starting to bother me.
Anyways, I feel forgotten and cast aside. I told my boyfriend at the start of this relationship that if he was going to pull this shit he can go find someone else. But since I'm a bit attached right now (having his kid, yadayadayada), I can't seem to leave. Don't get my wrong guys, I love the -blam!-er. I just need more... attention, affection, and hell at least some acknowledgement. I've talked to him several times about this, but it seems to have fallen on deaf ears.
What would you do in this situation?
TL;DR: Otthild's ranting and wants advice on how to deal with a negligent significant other.
EDIT: Baby is going out for adoption.
EDIT #2: Guys, I have talked to him. I've talked to him a lot. He always brushes me off.
EDIT #3: Yes, I will be going to counseling for postpartum.
EDIT #4: Thank you for the advice guys. I'll try to apply it the best I can. Also, thank you for the limited amount of troll responses.
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Edited by Adamal123: 7/14/2014 3:14:06 PMEdited because I'm stupid. He could be freaking out about having a baby for all you know and he's just keeping it to himself, who knows. I'm not necessarily the best at giving advice but just talking to him on a daily basis could help as well and possibly put his mind at ease. Don't force yourself or him to have a conversation. I understand you want attention as well, but given the current situation, he probably just needs some space and time to think. Assuming you've given that to him already try talking to him about the current situation. I know you're going through more than he is and it's not easy with your depression but men are bigger pussies about these kinds of things. If you're there for him hopefully he can man up and be there for you too? [spoiler]Don't hurt me I'm just trying to help ;_;[/spoiler]
