Pretty simple. I just prioritize. Family is always first. Nothing is going to stop me from being a Dad. Then work. After that it comes down to finding the times I will be able to play games. I've been waiting for Destiny for 2 years. I'm going to play it lots. As social as it is I want to be able to trust those I'm going to be with. The main fireteam I will be playing with is based on my times. When I will be free. It was really easy to find the time once I started looking for it. If it was a situation where they where going to force me to play on specific days and times, I wouldn't do it. This is a great group of people. I'm not telling you you need to join this (or any) clan. But if you're asking my opinion, you should give PrimeGuard a look. If you have questions, please ask. Even if you decide we aren't for you, we will help out as much as we can. I feel it's also important to point out that just because you apply, doesn't mean you are in. We want a small specific group of quality people and players. We are designed that way and it's one of the reasons we have a family feel. Hope this helps.