Have you? I have and it's not really great. I had a huge crush on my best friends ex, when they were dating and after they broke up. I've never told my friend about it and I don't think I ever will.
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Exes are fair game, of course I have.
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I'm kind of jealous of one of my best friend's girlfriend. She's super sweet and nice to everyone, in a completely honest way, and just an all-around great person. Also a qt 3.14. I told him how I was 'jealous' at one point; my exact words were something like "You're one lucky son of a bitch; you know that, right?". He laughed and said "Don't I know it!" We're cool, and I wouldn't ever try anything to mess with them, they're too happy together to even think about considering something like that.
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Hmm, let's see... *starts counting fingers* Yes, yes, yup, mhmm, ehhh, oh lord no, screw that, holy hell yes, yup.... Aaaand yup
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I would never do it I would not like my mates to do it too me so I wouldn't do it to them.
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Yep. But I let him keep going cause I wanted him happy.
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I can't remember any of my friends dating anyone I really liked that much.
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Yup. It's happened the other way around, too.
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2 RepliesI dated my friend's ex once.
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Not so much a crush, all I wanted to do was have sex with her.
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1 ReplyEdited by physman: 4/9/2014 2:40:44 AMMy close friends girlfriend broke up with my friend and the girl later told me she had a crush on me. She asked if we can go out a few months after she broke up with my friend, I said yea. So we went out and I haven't talked to that close friend ever since (it's not just the guy who I broke friendships with, it was an entire circle of good friends). Luckily for me, this incident happened in the end of Grade 12 and by first year university, me and the girl kinda just made a new circle of friends and it went smoothly. Although that circle of friends which I broke friendships with was a fun circle, I have found friends who are A LOT more like me in university, so I'm happy I left that circle. My advice to you: First off, as much as it looks bad to 'date a friends ex', it's not. A large majority of guys will do it, you're not in a wrong, it's normal and it's okay to date a girl who's been in a relationship before. Also, if you were really that close friends with the guy, then you would actually care enough to make sure you don't get too close to the girl. If he really was your bestfriend, you wouldn't have let yourself get so close to his girlfriend. But right now, you have two choices: Destroy the friendship with the guy (this will also possibly destroy your friendship with a circle of friends who know both you and your friend) and date the girl who you have a huge crush on (given that she likes you back).. If you do this, be aware that the girl might start liking your friend again and might break up with you (karma is a b*tch). Make sure the girl has broken up with the guy for a long while. (especially if you are still in highschool, highschool relationships are rarely successful so if you decide to go out with a girl who just recently broke up, and you are still in highschool, you're setting yourself up for failure) OR if you really actually like your circle of friends and if the guy is really your best friend, then give up on the girl (again, if you're in highschool, as much as you think you 'love' the girl, chances are, if you and the girl date, you guys will end up breaking up :p so no point destroying your circle of friends and the friendship with your close friend for a girl you probably won't be together with in the future.. sorry but I've been through that highschool stage and I don't know a single couple who were together in highschool and still are).
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Plenty of fish in the sea bro. I had one best friend get with my other beat friends ex. Ruined our 14 year friendship and ibwas stuck in mid. Stay away. Bros bfore hoes.
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2 RepliesMy best friends gf had a crush on me, it was awkward.
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10 RepliesI don't have friends so
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I used to have a big crush on my brother's girlfriend. He knows about it and I tease him once in awhile.
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3 RepliesHow about a crush on your gf's best friend?
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12 RepliesYes. I think it's fairly common as you are usually friends with people who have the same tastes and interests so it's not too far off for you to have similar attractions to people.
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6 Repliesi had a crush on my best friend i'd say that's just as bad
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Once.
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5 RepliesYeah.
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Nope.
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Yeah.
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More than that, I was in love with a friends girlfriend, also I have dated a friends ex but that's one of my biggest regrets.