[quote]Sometimes it's just easier to just shut down, to try and feel nothing, and to cut yourself off and be alone. And then you meet amazing people who you want to open up to, but you spent so long shutting down that it becomes hard to.[/quote] One of my problems is the opposite: I get too intense or too emotional too fast, because I've had to be introvert for fear of embarrassment, I just let go of that and have a blast. What I think is a blast at least, because then, even getting some contact details to hang out again or even just talk with someone I had fun with is apparently a social faux pas. :/ So I don't know.