I understand your point. Smaller, more intimate group sounds great except when you are ready and none of your small circle is. Then you are left to play with whoever you can get. The idea behind a big clan is to always have a like minded gamer ready to play when you are and the possibilities of that are improved in a bigger clan. I own xbox one myself. If you ever come around to owning a PS 4 please join us as you seem the type of gamer we are looking for.