Quite frankly, I would recommend counseling between all of you to ed-escalate the situation.
But, that shit's expensive, so at the very least a big sit down talk needs to happen and all parties involved need to express themselves in a non-confrontational manner. Emphasis on the non-confrontational manner.
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+1 Often a third person intermediary is necessary though, even if it is expensive.
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>non-confrontational manner top lel as soon as my bro raises his voice or says something with an attitude, it always escalates.
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Then he's being confrontational. Context matters just as much as words.