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Edited by Gaara444:
9/21/2013 3:28:36 AM
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Why is "No Sex before marriage" bad?
Many people I talk too can't stop laughing when I tell them I don't plan on having sex until I get married. They say I'm just being ridiculous and then criticize me saying "I should grow up". I don't get it, if Sex is all it's cracked up to be, why wouldn't I want to do it with the person I love? Why would I want to participate in something so great so casually with people I might not care about? I have nothing against people who do have sex casually. I don't see shame in people wanting to feel needed even if it's only physical. I'm not here to judge (I gave a different thread for that), But why is my view apparently so obtuse that it's bad?
Maybe it's because I didn't grow up around the topic casually. I'm not really a fan of talking about it casually, and it's only easy for me to do it here cause there's a level of anonymity on the internet.
EDIT 9/20/13: The views expressed in this OP, are no longer up to date and have changed.
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1 ReplyEdited by VIC: 5/15/2013 4:15:25 AMDo what you wanna do, man. If you wanna wait, wait. If you don't, don't. Doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks. Personally, I don't think there's anything wrong with experiencing that level of intimacy with someone before you marry them. It's a big part of a relationship. Would suck to find out that there's no chemistry there after you tied the knot but if you're confident that it won't happen, then, like I said: do what you want.
