This is a genuine question. There is always complaints from solo players and there was an enormous amount of backlash about dual destiny. Please enlighten me, those of you who play alone. :)
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I play to relax, and I've always liked being solo. My son plays D2 and I don't even play with him. Just the way I am, an introvert I guess, lol.
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2 Replies1. Old friends left the game 2. Destiny has no organic way of finding new friends. Other games are really good at this because they promote user interactions, whether it's through their PvP or servers in proper MMO's, but Bungie has seemingly gone out of its way to prevent in-game interactions. So you basically have to go swipe on some clan forum for people to play with and I've never been a fan of that. 3. Assuming that I did make the move to just randomely connect myself to complete strangers through some clan advertisement I'd have to add a few disclaimers that probably wouldnt put me high on their roster. For instance, I've been away from this game for a long time and havent raided at all and I have a really wonky work schedule. 4. As a returning player I feel like the in-game Fireteam finder could have helped me find people to play with. The issue is just that we can't even search for a lot of the basic stuff, the stuff where I might have connected with some person who also returned or was new to the game by playing basic campaign missions.
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I play alone because everyone that I played with everyday have moved on, and never found anyone else that I enjoy playing with as much as them
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1 ReplyI don’t have any consistently active friends to play with. This isn’t to say I don’t raid or play dungeons, rather I would consider myself a veteran LFG player. Which is why it SUCKS that Bungie is removing Legacy Fireteam Finder. That thing was goated for getting super specific -blam!- done, or explaining what portion of a caty quest or exotic quest in general that you were on.
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1 ReplyEdited by DearlyDpartd: 7/9/2025 11:33:42 PMPersonally, the best way to sum up my solo preference is... "I want to play alone...with other players that also want to play alone." The word "Solo" might not be the best word to use in my case, but I'm not sure where I would fit in bc I enjoy playing with random people. The more the merrier in fact. It is why I enjoy games with objective based modes with big teams (I really with Destiny had this). I also enjoy the fact that I don't have to talk or commit to being in a party with specific people. I understand that communication is a necessity at harder difficulties, and so I would use the mic if needed. I can generally gauge the skill level of the team, and see if they know what to do (I don't mind carrying either if I can), which helps things flow smoother for me. I like to anticipate what the randoms are doing and react/adjust accordingly. There is just something about accomplishing a goal with complete strangers without communication that is more satisfying than completing content with people I already know. For all the reasons above, I wish matchmaking was in EVERYTHING. Now let me preface this by saying I don't like to waste my time or anyone else's, so I always make an effort to be as prepared as I can. I don't want to have to filter people out and find people to complete difficult content. I just want to load up and go. There's no downside besides failing to complete whatever it is, but that is solely on the individual and their choice to matchmake. If it's such a big deal to find "good" players, you have dozens of ways to find players. But to players like me, matchmaking everything is a godsend. I don't mind playing with friends, but I also don't mind playing "alone" with other players. I think toxicity is another big part people play solo. Though I can't really relate as I am not one to take things to heart. If I get booted for whatever reason, oh well. I just move on. There's no point wallowing over it. And I think once players reach that level of "Shrugging shoulders", they might start playing "solo" the way I do. Some solo players might also just enjoy the solitude and being able to just be alone for a few moments from whatever they have going on in life. I think many players can relate when I say it's important for me in a sense because gaming is a way of escaping from the real world, even if it's just a few minutes.
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Contact with others takes me out of the game. But having content that I can’t complete doesn’t bother me.
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6 RepliesAfter D2 came out and my clan broke up I became very antisocial when it comes to video games. Now if I need a group I'll run with two of my sons. One is good at Destiny as long as it's not PvP while the other is a good distraction.
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Cuz it's free. 🤷🏼
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Edited by WalnutSolid391: 7/10/2025 12:25:01 AM[quote]This is a genuine question. There is always complaints from solo players and there was an enormous amount of backlash about dual destiny. Please enlighten me, those of you who play alone. :)[/quote] I think it's an age thing maybe,if I was younger and didn't have 1000 other things to do before I even think to play destiny maybe I'd already have virtual friends that play. Not to mention I'd rather jam a knife in my ear than be in a group with 6 people talking, and god forbid the people who are in chats playing other games or whatever.I did kings fall in D1and I'm still friends with those guys ,but nobody plays anymore.some days I play for 1hr. some I play more and lfg if I can't solo something I need
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Edited by SCTTSMALL: 7/9/2025 11:43:36 PMI think for me, I don’t use video games to make friends. I am an older player. I would just prefer my friends to be people I actually know and see. I work in sales and am constantly interacting with people. A little gaming is my get away from all of that. But I also don’t think it is weird or strange for anyone to do just that with the social aspect of this game. If you aren’t opposed to using LFG, there is really not much in the game that you can’t accomplish. Harder to do day one stuff but that is not my lane anyway.
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I play solo because all my friends left the game years ago. Im the only one left, so what other choice do I have? Randoms are a double edge sword, you will get someone chill or extremely toxic. Majority of the time, is the latter. Ive come to enjoy destiny best when I play alone. Obviously when my friends would play, those days were the very best days I had with destiny. I do enjoy this game but bungie just loves to kick its game when it’s down. They make bad decisions back to back. Trust me, if there was another game like destiny, I would officially leave the game in a heart beat. Borderlands is the closest thing to this game but sometimes I want to dabble in PvP and that game doesn’t offer that. There is nothing like destiny and it’s a shame bungie disrespects their players so much. They wont know how good they have it until it’s finally gone.
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Edited by JupiterANDBeyond-: 7/9/2025 5:11:20 PMI play solo because from past experiences which were not nice
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I only play with people I know for the non-matchmade activities as I don't really care for interacting with strangers if I have to use a microphone. The bonus to this is being stronger at surviving most content out of necessity.
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I play solo cos well. I feel more satisfaction doing things alone knowing I did something alone that was difficult and feel proud. Solo dungeons for example.
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I have a people intensive job. I have kids. I love solitude. I want to be alone in my recreation time. I used to play a lot of PvP and occasionally other content with friends but grumpy old me needs more time just solo. Hope this adds clarity.
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1 ReplyBecause I have a job, wife, & kids who all take priority over a game. I only have a few hours to play at night & for the wife/kids, I respectfully keep my gaming experience quiet so they can sleep. Most of my clan has left & those that are left don't play when I'm online.
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6 RepliesBecause I don't want to hear others views on society while I'm playing a game. Because streamer elitism has made some believe the game has to be played the the way datto suggest
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Because I hate being forced into a strike or some kind of matchmaking activity to further a quest line. I've had too many annoyances to put up with the nonsense that goes on with speedrunners, mid-run quitters, or folks who don't know what to do. And I DON'T want to play a higher level of the activity to avoid matchmaking! I want to take my time, play at my speed, and figure it out on my own. I want to move the story along. I'm not looking for "friends". I'm not looking for carries. I'm looking for fun on my own terms. The loot will drop as the loot drops. No biggie. If people can't understand that, that's their problem, not mine. It's BUNGIE who needs to understand it!
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1 ReplyI have no friends 😭
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2 RepliesMy friends all -blam!- left in the wake of Bungie's bullshit...
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Edited by IGotYour6: 7/9/2025 3:58:00 AMI am responsible for managing many people and projects at work, as well as multiple homes, cars, health care, food, educational financing, and moral support for the members of my family. I play to free my mind from the responsibilities I have. Most of the time, the last thing I want in Destiny is to be part of a group and be held responsible for any sort of coordinated effort in a video game. I don't even want to listen to people talk or read their chats because the relatively small number of no-life jerks in this wonderful game have made that experience a net loss for me. I grind Destiny to escape the daily grind in the RW so I can shoot the guns I earned in PVP and get some dopamine.
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1 ReplySolo means I succeed or fail entirely due to my own actions. Solo means the AI is more predictable which is required for certain builds to function correctly. Solo means I don't have to drag my mic out. Solo means I don't have to listen to a squeaker. Solo means my game time isn't dictated by the schedule of other people. I'll team when absolutely necessary, like for Dual Destiny, but if I can solo something that's how I'm going to approach it first. I prefer soloing as much as possible.
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1 ReplyI don't. That movie sucked.
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My original clan I played with from D1 to D2 disbanded after Curse of osiris, and my wife and I quit playing. When we came back for shadowkeep the people we used to play with never came back, most people we met on the game were rude and unhelpful, the ones that werent were more concerned with getting us to carry them through everything at the cost of us ever progressing on our own goals. So we gave up. Easier to stick to nightfalls and dungeons as a duo or solo, we had a friend from outside the game who joined us later on with witch queen that we had lots of fun doing dungeons with but he has sadly passed away. I mean it's a lot of reason overall really, taking time trying to meet players is time I could be playing, waiting around to accommodate everyone's schedules is time we could be doing something, every "Hold on a minute" that turns into a half hour is another wasted attempt or two on a boss. I had that kind of time as a teenager, but not now in my 40s. If it can't be soloed or matchmade, I just don't bother, time is valuable to me, and this community most of the time sucks.
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2 RepliesFor most people it's because they game when they can, and that doesn't always allow room for organising a group. If they've spent all day on the phone, working out complex problems or having to adopt an 'image' for a customer facing job, the very last thing they want to do is spend their evening on chat, working out puzzles or fitting a 'role' like a lot of group activities want them to. For a lot, gaming is their 'me time' when they just want to immerse themselves in something atypical to the life they've just spent half their day living, and that often means retreating to the pleasure of their own company. They spend their working lives being told how to think, act and behave a certain way, doing things they don't want to be doing and having to deal with people they don't like. Their leisure time should be spent doing the exact opposite.
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4 RepliesBecause I don't like people.