Shrouded VII solved everything you are talking about for me. I bounced around clans and megaclans trying to find a group of players I could fit in with and learn beside. VII has always focused on welcoming new members and trying to get them to participate in our sometimes questionable but always well intended shenanigans. We do raids weekly, have members in place dedicated to helping new members and have weekly events. While we are a part of a mega clan we pride ourselves on not just being another lfg or fireteam finder, we are friends who have spent countless hours playing the game and are always looking for new friends. VII would be lucky to have you, If you would like to join here is a link to VII and it has all the information you would need to join the SGC. https://www.bungie.net/en/ClanV2?groupid=3007121