I have a cousin, Nella. We call her the pope. My aunt Madeleine goes by many names. Mads is the most common, though my one English inept sister has took to calling her maz for a while. We have a family friend, Robert, though I only found out his name wasn’t in fact Rex when I was 15. My mother is the oldest of three kids. A nickname that I occasionally hear my grandfather use is old snooks. My aunt’s nickname for her daughter is Rue. Don’t know why. It only took one occasion where that name was misheard for us to start calling her gru. That one stuck. As for me, my parents call me flim. Don’t know how you get flim from James, but it is what it is.