except all of the expressed ones are this requires too much effort, bright dust, money, time... oh and nerf everything I don't like! thats the whole forum at this point. I hate parts of the game but I don't start threads just whining about them, I just skip over those parts and move on

I feel ya but you are here whining on the threads. And a lot of times, those differing opinions are from different people. I would understand your frustration if it was someone asking for Apple pie and they -blam!- because they got Apple pie but you are complaining about someone that asks for a grind but someone else complaining about the grind being too hard

fair point. probably doesn't help that I'm dying of boredom in a meeting and just irritable. you do have to admit, every trending post on here is a some sort of grievance, lol