I am probably going to get flack here that I need to be thicker skinned, but I feel I am posting this for the people who are too afraid or embarrassed to do so. I am an OK PVP player. I have my good games and my bad. Here is a link to my PVP stats: [url]https://destinytracker.com/d2/profile/xbl/THREE-GSD-K9[/url] I am sure I have a KD similar to most of the Destiny community that focuses on PVE more than PVP. I would like to get Luna's Howl, Recluse, or even Mountain Top, but when I get messages that say I suck, it makes me feel like if I am getting "you suck" after Quickplay, whats going to happen if I go into Comp more. So with all that said, her we go..... I am sick and tired of getting messages from people after a lose in Quickplay, Gambit and Gambit Prime about how bad I was. Really??? What is that going to accomplish? Games over, you lost your streak, I lost mine, its a game, I could go on forever and all it shows is: 1. You're a bully. 2. You can't handle a loss in a video game. Do you maybe think that I just had a bad match? Maybe the other team was just that much better? Maybe I just got a new set of weapons that I saw were really good for whatever game type we are playing and wanted to try it out. Again I could go on and on. Instead of tell me I suck why don't you say something like"Hey here are some tips on getting better. I noticed you would stay out in the open too long, get to cover more." Or "Don't rush in so often." not "You're awfull" or " Don't invade if you suck." I had a match the other day where I kept ending up in 1 v 1 against this one guy, we both had hand cannons and I am not a hand cannon guy, 5 or 6 times. He out gunned me each time. After the match I messaged him asking a legit question " How do I get better with HC?" You know what he could have said piss off, but he didn't. He gave me some good advise. Lets have more of those moments after crucible and Gambit matches instead of the "YOU SUCK" ones. At the end of the day this is just a video game. There are things in life that are way worse than losing a Quickplay match, Gambit, or even Competitive. We are all playing to enjoy the game and all the different game types Destiny has to offer. OK, that is all. Thanks for reading and see you in the wild.