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Edited by Ulysses: 7/25/2018 8:59:03 PM
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When did Destiny become so racist / sexist?

Couple of things I have learned about writing this post. 1. This post is sexist towards men that really wasn’t the intention. After reading some of the comments it is I will admit it. 2. Dam there is a lot of toxicity out here. 3. There is a problem 4. There are some really articulate POV’s here. 5. People read what they want. Some the comments that are on this thread assume that I was referring to the whole of Destiny gamers nope just some of them. Looking at the title I can understand why. I will probably add more to this as the comments come in. So read the rest of the post check some of the comments it is fascinating how passionate people are. The main intention was to start a conversation which I think it has. Maybe didn’t handle right may be I did. Does it make things better does it change anything who knows? Drop a response keep talking about it figure out a solution or don’t . Totally up to you, I do hope it does make you think. Here is the post: Destiny the game is not racist / sexist but some of players are. I have noticed the influx of basically more ignorance on destiny. Which surprises me because the game is geared towards sci-fi nerds like me. I am not saying that sci-fi nerds can’t be racist / sexist but if your into sci-fi you more inclined to accept the idea of different races and women being empowered etc. Edit: *Great response below about sci-fi being sexist as a genre which I thought was well written. So that is my rant, yes I know this may not be the platform for it but if your reading this, hopefully it makes you think. Things don’t change if we don’t talk about it. Say something when you encounter ignorance. Edit: This is the sexist part and it is. As man I would say we do and say a lot of stupid sh!t. And yes women can be toxic too, I haven’t really run into any toxic women in any online game but that is my experience. So to all men out there regardless of age remember a woman brought you into to this world. Remember your mother's face before you open your mouth and say something negative about another human being. Be better, do better and move forward. Thoughts?
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  • There is absolutely no correlation between destiny and racists/sexists. Your post is invalid

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  • Edited by SmoovDougie: 7/25/2018 6:02:51 PM
    OP thats cool and all but just a couple of things I have learned about writing this post. 1. This post is sexist towards men that really wasn’t the intention. After reading some of the comments it is I will admit it. 2. Dam there is a lot of toxicity out here. 3. There is a problem 4. There are some really articulate POV’s here. 5. People read what they want. Some the comments that are on this thread assume that I was referring to the whole of Destiny gamers nope just some of them. Looking at the title I can see understand why. I will probably at more to this as the comments come in. So read the rest of the post check some of the comments it is fascinating how passionate people are. The main intention was to start a conversation which I think it has. Maybe didn’t handle right may be I did. Does it make things better does it change anything who knows? Drop a response keep talking about it figure out a solution or don’t . Totally up to you, I do hope it does make you think. Here is the post: Destiny the game is not racist / sexist but some of players are. I have noticed the influx of basically more ignorance on destiny. Which surprises me because the game is geared towards sci-fi nerds like me. I am not saying that sci-fi nerds can’t be racist / sexist but if your into sci-fi you more inclined to accept the idea of different races and women being empowered etc. Edit: *Great response below about sci-fi being sexist as a genre which I thought was well written. So that is my rant, yes I know this may not be the platform for it but if your reading this, hopefully it makes you think. Things don’t change if we don’t talk about it. Say something when you encounter ignorance. Edit: This is the sexist part and it is. As man I would say we do and say a lot of stupid sh!t. And yes women can be toxic too I haven’t really run into any of them in any online game but that is my experience. So to all men out there regardless of age remember a woman brought you into to this world. Remember your mother's face before you open your mouth and say something negative about another human being. Be better, do better and move forward. Thoughts?

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  • Edited by GeneralGobo: 7/24/2018 5:25:00 PM
    I sexually identify as a dreg, so imagine my horror at my brothers being slaughtered on a daily basis. The horror is real Free the dregs

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    • 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

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    • Edited by Lyrro: 7/25/2018 1:09:58 AM
      To answer the topic question, I would have to say that Destiny became so sexist/racist when you decided to start looking for all the sexism/racism. Those on a witch hunt will always find their witch... but then, perhaps you're not on a witch hunt and are just now starting to notice all the background noise. If you have started listening for it I'll warn to be cautious. People who live life listening for the background noise tend to get so focused on the noise that they tune out everything else. I suppose I probably shouldn't be using metaphors on here; so few people these days know what a metaphor is anymore and tend to take them literal. I'm not calling racism or sexism background noise, as in "something to be dismissed". I'm saying that they have always existed, as far back as the history of socialization between different tribes/civilizations of humans go, and regardless of how much we try to push it out of our thoughts, it still exists today in the background. However, and this is the most important part of this entire post... Not every man who opens a car door for a woman is a chauvinistic misogynist who thinks women can't open the door for themselves. Sometimes, I'd even wager most times, they do it out of love or appreciation; a gesture of acknowledgement. These days people get so wrapped up in self victimization that they can turn literally any gesture, regardless of intent, into something racist or sexist. Don't let it get to the point with you that everything you see is sexist or racist because the vast majority of the time, it's not.

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    • Why does all the stupid shit come from the Xbox crowd?

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    • It never was your troglodyte

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    • I play with quite a few women. My characters are women. I have no problem working with them. If a man has a problem working with women is because he's either insecure or a sexist homosexual. I've played with women who are better than men. I have 2 women I'd rather do nf or raids with than most men. It's all about skill to me than whether your a male or female. Women can handle jokes and tolerate male bantering idk where this post spikes from, but I assure not all of us are complete jackarses who play.

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    • Some people suck.

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    • Edited by Manslave2Eris: 7/25/2018 1:26:57 AM
      9/9/14

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    • I don't know what you're talking about. I play Destiny with both men and women regularly and we have no problems. We have folks from Jamaica, Korea, UK, and USA playing with us regularly. I don't hear racism or sexism in our chats. It sounds to me like you need to find some friends and stop joining randoms.

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      • America has always been that way. You just have a combination of tough-and-uncertain economic times, and utterly toxically polarized political climate where working-class whites are fearful of losing what control they have. Which has brought a lot of ugly nativism/xenophobia and racism that had been driven underground for the last 20 years roaring back to the surface. So things people would only [i]think[/i] in years past they are now angry and disinhibited enough to say outright.

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        • sci-fi player are less sexist? or fantasy players? no group of people predominately cares about this crap. the problem is that bungie is obsessed with pushing this as their pathetic agenda sadly. like all activision properties (blizzard is equally trash) it sucks because they didn't used to be this way. also i wouldn't say that about sci-fi or fantasy fans. it's more like those losers at companies like marvel, wizards of the coast etc who are crybaby sjws. it's imposed on players, whether they like it or not, and most don't statistically. just like most of the population doesn't

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          • Welcome to planet Earth.

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            • Ahh the internet, exposing insecurity and nasty attitudes alike

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            • I hate all of the human race equally :) I daily watch gore videos on bestgore and theync to fulfill my hatred for the self destructive so full of itself human race. Lol people actually flex things to make them feel better but they are still just a bag of bone and flesh with a conscience xD

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            • Just imagine being so delusional that you actually think this does some good. Get lost

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            • I hate everyone equally!

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            • Good job making a sexist post about sexism, idiot.

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              • Some destiny players are? And? You think it's just in destiny or something? Some people are sexist around the world.... Please tell me the point of this post wasn't so you could attempt to white knight some female forum users..... Also I like how you assumed the racist or sexist players will be on here reading this or your post would do anything about them even if they did

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              • You think this is bad? Do not play Competitive Overwatch. Destiny's community is composed of angels compared to the OW community.

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                • This post is sexist. Deliberately blaming men for all forum toxicity? Fuk.off

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                  • Instead of bashing guys just say for everyone not to be rude. Your comment itself was sexist, which is a problem with all these fake feminist movements.

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                    • This is the most laughable post I’ve seen on here, not all men on destiny 2 give a shit whether you are a girl or boy, I just want to complete the raids 😂

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                    • Did you just mansplane sexism? I think you did, didn't you.

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