Well, I'm moving out and I have lived with my roommate for like nearly 9 months. I just assumed he was straight the entire time, but I knew he did more feminism things like light candles. But he never invited a guy over or posted anything romantic with a guy.
And I kept pushing him to see if he would just admit it to me, b/c when we were looking for roommates he put LGBT friendly. I thought it was weird a straight guy would put LGBT friendly. But then I just assumed he was very progressive to the point he could see two men making out in his apartment and be completely fine with it.
So two potential roommates come, first guy is a bisexual and then second one I assume is a straight girl. He invites both and talks to them, then gets stuck about liking both of them. I was getting confused why he would consider choosing a bisexual guy over a female roommate who looks like your typical hot 25 yr old, thinking he was still straight. I was thinking only a gay guy would consider a bisexual guy over a girl.
So then he says he chose the bisexual guy and finally opened up that he is gay. I kinda thought he might be but I didn't really know. I just thought he dressed up nicely for a heterosexual man. And I was wondering why he has gay friends if he was straight, not like that one gay friend, but several.
I guess it's weird but it doesn't really change anything. Now he just admitted he is gay after 9 months.
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Pls learn to write better
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3 Replies[quote] but I knew he did more feminism things like light candles[/quote] God forbid you just want a room to smell nice.
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1 ReplyWhen lighting candles is feminine.
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I lit candles cause that shit smell good af.
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6 RepliesSo? I had gay roommates before. Love them more than some family. A quick story. I was just getting back to my apartment. I opened the door. The entire living room and dining room was covered in plastic. Everything. There where 7 guys including my roommate, bottles of lube everywhere and all where going at it. Was not a pretty site.
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Sounds like he was gay all along and just didn't want you to know
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that still doesn't excuse the times you jumped in the shower with him and knocked the soap out of his hands
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A lot of guys insecure on their masculinity on this post.
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Hey boi, I light candles as well. That shit smells good
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Itt triggered liberals
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4 RepliesLight candles Is that the new sign? I must be gay.
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I would have been suspicious when you two bro'd eachother off and he didn't finish with "No homo"
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4 RepliesWow, OP, aren’t you a bigot. PSA: Just like not all straight guys want to -blam!- every female they see, gay guys don’t want to -blam!- every guy they see. Let’s face it, even as a heterosexual I can probably assume your roommate could do better than you anyway...
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2 RepliesSexuality and gender expression are entirely unrelated. I've met ultra-macho gay men and I've met ultra-feminine lesbians. I've also met ultra-macho straight men who enjoy caramel macchiatos and ultra-feminine straight women who like watching sports. These gender norms we pigeonhole ourselves into are BS.
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Mkay good to know I guess...
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3 RepliesEdited by Krash Nebula: 1/4/2018 3:44:09 AMI light candles almost every night, I'm not gay