On this site? I've asked before back in the yr1 era... All I got were similar responses like on this thread telling me to use other sites, insult me etc, though if I got into a raid it was just a troll and we'd never finish a single stage. I also never get enough responses (most of the time, never any) on other sites. I usually wait hours and get one or two and just give up as more posts pop up and get attention over mine. I just luck out and ask people in the social spaces or sometimes get invited to a random group in game. I seem to luck out more in game but can never complete the raids or establish a group as I usually never hear from them again. Just my luck.

And you never tried joining a clan? I honestly have no idea what the problem you're having is, I've used the Recruitment section on here since week 1 of Destiny and NEVER have a problem finding or joining a group for Raids etc. Are you a nice guy? Do you scream and swear lots? Are you always dying in game? Honestly I can't think of any other reason as to why people don't play with you other than YOU being the problem. I'm not hating on you but out of the hundreds of people I've met through Destiny, you are one of 3 or 4 people I've spoken to that can't get into a fireteam and the other ones have all been either terrible at the game or outright rude and obnoxious! Recruitment is SO easy to use and it's right here on the website and even on the App, if it's been this long that you've been having a problem making friends in game, maybe you wanna take a good look at how you present yourself to others?

I can't get committed to Destiny, I can't play often, I play lots of other games and I want a legit group of friends, not a bunch of randoms.

Before you make a new friend, that person is a 'random' I've made friends I talk to outside of this game from playing this game! You honestly seem a little whiney and difficult to get on with, I'm sorry but that's just how I see it.

Well when you've had a rough time on Destiny and gotten nowhere for almost an entire year you tend to not give a crap so much any more. My friends moved onto other games and I've just become a Destiny casual now anyway.

Either make the effort to make friends in game or just play casually and stop whining! I've met people I care very much about through Destiny and they live on the other side of the world! Having a friend you see in real life is the same as having a friend you talk to via phone/text or Skype

Like I said I already have friends... And I feel no emotions typing on forums so I don't get how you'd assume I'm whining... And I have to quote you on that I.R.L friend vs cyberspace friends... There are limitations, and some people 'draw certain lines' so they aren't exactly the same thing. But hey everyone has an opinion on that and it all depends on how social people are. For example, being too social will make people think your a creep.

Well I've never been creepy and also never had a problem with meeting neww people, no matter where I meet them