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Edited by Mistah Jay: 9/14/2016 7:16:17 PM
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Got a number from a really hot chick! Should i cheat on my wife with her? (now in the process of cheating on her :/)

So i love my wife very much but after 10 years we have seemingly i guess gotten tired of each other. We hardly talk, there's no sex or really even positive feelings what so ever. I feel like we could make us better again but she doesn't want to try. So today i was at the store and this hot chick started flirting pretty hard and i for some reason asked for her number. Weirdly enough she gave it to me. Sooo i have this chicks number and im gonna text her i guess any tips on what i should say? Should i delete the number? Edit: i just texted her Seems to be going pretty well. Her name is Vanessa Edit 2: she is veeery flirty. She wants to meet up soon for drinks... HELP! Edit: 3 so we are going for drinks tonight... Just texted my wife that i have to pick an overnight shift for a friend. And afterwards "i said i love you very much baby im sorry i cant be there with you" she said "ok". Edit: 4 headed out for drinks now. Wish me luck?
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  • Your left hand is called Vanessa?

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    • Edited by Steve of Steves: 9/14/2016 6:08:23 PM
      If you are unhappy with your marriage, I suggest divorcing her before pursuing the new girl. If you love your wife, you wouldn't consider cheating on her in the first place. It's one thing to get a woman's number for a strictly platonic relationship. It's another thing if you're going to use it to cheat on your wife. Be a man and do the right thing. Divorce your wife so she doesn't have to be married to an asshole who wants to cheat on her. PS. What's your wife's number? I'm curious if she wants to grab a drink.

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      • You shouldn't have done that OP. Now I'm not one to say what you should have done but to think that you would be so willing to find someone else tells me that you probably shouldn't be married.

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      • Edited by Psyntifik: 9/17/2016 3:06:14 PM
        Can't you just get your wife involved? Damn normies.

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      • Men like you deserve to have an axe lodged firmly in your chest. [spoiler]If this is bait, oh well.[/spoiler]

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        • Hope your dick falls off from the herps you're about to get.

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        • Edited by Bapaotje: 9/15/2016 10:09:39 AM
          OP

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        • Are you really asking strangers over the Internet if you should cheat on your wife?

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        • Have you thought that your wife may be doing the same and that's why she don't put out anymore? I ain't gonna judge you dude, life is short, you gotta do what makes you happy.

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        • Do you have kids?

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        • Edited by Coopski: 9/15/2016 5:18:35 PM
          This is how I imagine justice in this scenario: 1. OP has destiny app 2. OP is asleep and someone replies to this post [i]wife sees it light up[/i] 3. Wife is like [i]oh what's this imma take look[/i] 4. Preview looks like this: You dirty scum $*%/]@ 5. Wife is like [i]why would they say this about my loving hubby[/i] 6. Opens post sees topic 7. Cue wife rage 8.?????? 9. Profit

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        • You very well may be the definition of a piece of shit. Good job. Seems your wife picked up on that years ago though so have fun when she takes all your shit.

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          • Edited by Herakles: 9/15/2016 5:06:27 PM
            You're a disgusting excuse for a human being.

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          • Edited by Masque of Night: 9/15/2016 4:30:52 AM
            Well, I would recommend you be mature about the situation and have a genuine heart-to-heart conversation with your wife about your marriage, and decide together if it's worth trying to fix or if it's time to give up the ghost. However, i'm sure you've already been bombarded by the voice of reason and have elected to ignore it. Just remember, whatever consequences result from your actions, you've truly brought upon yourself. And i'll have no sympathy for you if your recklessness comes back to bite you square on the ass. That is, assuming this scenario is legitimate. My skepticism tells me that it isn't, but for the slim chance that it is, hopefully one more voice in the choir will cause that head on your shoulders to get back to work, so the head in your pants can quit doing all of the thinking. My apologies if I come across as condescending, I don't mean to. I've been cheated on in the past, so I know how awful it can feel to be on the receiving end of that betrayal. I'm genuinely sorry to hear about your marital issues if they are indeed true, but infidelity isn't the way to handle it. It'll only cause more pain than there already is. Doing things the "right" way will hurt as well, but not nearly as much, and the consequences will usually be much less ugly.

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          • Don't be a dick. Talk to your wife like a -blam!-ing grown-up and sort things out, even if sorting it out means having a polyamorous or open relationship. Cheating will just hurt her and everyone involved and make for a messy conflict. Also when the divorce comes the adulterer usually doesn't have a good time in court...

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          • Edited by designation1of9: 9/15/2016 9:43:53 AM
            Personally, I would have divorced my wife if I was even considering something like that. Even if things aren't working out, she's a human being and you committed yourself and swore to be with her and love her and only her for the rest of your life. The least you can do is have the decency to man up and let her know it's over. It won't be easy, but at least you'll both part with some shred of dignity. Adulatory is an incredibly selfish act, as the guilty party destroys lives, tears worlds apart for their significant other, their children, their families, etc. Cheaters deserve zero respect and have earned whatever problems their future holds.

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          • Get a tracfone for those sorts of things

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          • I'm not condoning your actions, but I'm not going to tell you what to do. You'll do what you want regardless of what I say. Just remember that we all live with the consequences of our actions.

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          • Have fun!

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            It doesn't really seem like you're mature enough to really know what you're doing. Also, I don't think there is any sort of legitimate justification to cheat on your spouse.

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          • Have fun and enjoy yourself

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            • You're absolutely terrible.

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            • Yes

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            • Judging by your responses to comments below, you are trying to find any excuse to validate your actions. My advice? Talk to your wife about it, and see how she feels about your relationship.

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            • I haven't smelled this in a long time. A scent that is very shallow, but carried deep on the winds... could it be? Why yes, I believe I've caught the scent of a [i]divorce...[/i]

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            • Edited by Hellbent02: 9/15/2016 4:43:26 AM
              Either divorce or sit her down and talk to her. If she doesn't want to talk about it or try to improve things then as said, divorce seems to be the best option. Cheating isn't right regardless. It's a very low thing to do to someone [spoiler]pretty sure this isn't real either.[/spoiler]

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