1. Be yourself. Anyone who conforms to the standard just to fit in is just too scared to show the world the real you. Wether it be something dumb like preferring white chocolate over milk chocolate, or liking to RP in real life or on fourms. 2. Words are words. If someone says 'Go Fuuk yourself' ignore em. They are just saying that to make he selves feel like they hav power. Sure, they may hurt for a moment, but the pain makes you stronger. Let the words roll off your back like water off a stone. 3. How to defend themselves. Sometimes, people will not like you. They won't like that your ok with being yourself, that their insults don't hurt you. This may cause them to take physical action. My child/children need to learn to protect themselves, preferably without lethal force. Honestly, if my son or daughter for a suspension for beating a bullies teeth in cause the bully came after them, I'd be completely ok with it. If they started the fight though, that's a different story