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Edited by Duardo:
7/26/2016 1:55:47 PM
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A guardian lost his mother this morning
This morning my mother passed away of complications with from a recent surgery. I know many of you will question why I'm coming here to talk about this, but I'm really just seeking comfort wherever I can get it at the moment. In the last year and a half I've lost my father, step mother and now my mom. Do me a favor guardians and tell your parents you love them. Call them every day if you can because you never know when they'll be gone.
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Edited by Anedime: 7/26/2016 4:57:58 PMI sympathise with your struggle, and having recently lost a close family member I know what you're going through, but at the same time, I don't really agree with this either. Because I've dealt with two deaths in the last month alone, and come to the Destiny and destiny community to unwind and forget about the stress I'm barely containing, not to be told "Go talk to your parent they'll die" dude that's not -blam!-ing cool man, I get you're going through stuff but we all do, don't you have family to help you deal with this? I mean Jesus, man... Edit: Thanks for the downvotes people, apparently my family dying is just a -blam!-ing joke because I think there's a time and a place for things. Hypocritical trash. Did anyone actually look at this guy's post history? He's literally going around replying with "My mom died" in every damn thread, FFS, that's just bringing everyone down.
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My condolences to you and other relatives
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So sorry for your loss hope God comforts your heart today and in the coming weeks,months,and years. Keep on shining guardian.
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May you find comfort and peace in your time of grief. Condolences as well. Never really had a father, still have my mom. Lost a son 10 years ago when he was age 15. You may never stop grieving and the pain will always be there, although some days are better than others. Enjoy the days you have while you can.
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Edited by PatientZero4018: 7/26/2016 3:20:57 PMi feel your pain bro i lost mine 2 yrs ago .. she lost the battle to cancer killed her pretty quick.. it was the rare kind that is not treatable all they can do is suspend death by giving you chemo and radiation then lots of pain meds to keep you a sleep through the roughest part and pass in your sleep.. so i feel your pain..it gets easier later on but once in a while youll read a post from someone about this and cant help but be sad and drop tears.. and miss your own mom.. so thanks for that
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2 RepliesLost my parents within an 18 month period. Not only is the loss difficult, it also brings you face to face with your own mortality. Deal with your feelings. All of them. Because grief--and any unresolved issues--will bring up feelings that "they" would say you shouldn't have. They're wrong. Whatever you feel is right and what you need to be feeling. It will get better.
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My heart goes out to you and anyone else here who has ever lost a loved one. I'll say a prayer of love for you all today. :) -Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
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I'm sorry for your loss.
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I still have mine and see them as often as possible. God bless you and yours. My condolence and prayers are with you. May you find peace where you are looking for it.
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Edited by GG ALLIN RIP: 7/26/2016 4:08:22 PMThat's terrible to hear. I hope the best for you and your family. I lost my mom just as suddenly in 2004. It doesn't ever really get "better". You just learn to live with it. Keep a token of her with you. That helped me then and helps me now. I wear her metal cremation tag on a chain around my neck. The only time I take it off is to sleep or shower. This is going to be a really hard time for you. It's important to keep yourself together and not fall off the deep end. My condolences, man. I don't know what kind of music you like, but here's really good Stephen Marley track that might help you a little. https://youtu.be/csK5H8DboOA
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Truly sorry for your loss. I've been experiencing a rash of family losses as well, and so I empathize. Going to a wake tonight and a funeral tomorrow. Stay strong. And reach out when you need help. Don't let anyone get you down. Appreciate the life you have and the gifts your mother gave you. Make the most of your time and love each and every person in your life as much as you can.
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I tell my kids, that as soon as you're born, your dying, so make the most of life. One never knows when the Reaper will call.
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I am so -blam!-ing sorry, I can't imagine losing my mom, my prayers go out to you dude
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My condolences and prayers to you and your family guardian.
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My condolences. The community is here for you.
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Thoughts and prayers go out to you bro
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2 RepliesDude no offence and I'm sorry this is happening to you but for your own sake I don't think you should post here. Or at least be prepared because I can almost guarantee some awful replies. I'm really sorry for your loss dude
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hey I'm sorry. lost my grandma to cancer. i know thats not the same as losing ur mom but i can feel 4 u. stupid cancer. " u got to play the cards ur dealt."
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i'm so sorry to hear that. please do me a favor and stay strong and keep pushing forward
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My thoughts are with you, stay strong
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1 ReplyI can paint a picture of her if you ever need it. [spoiler]heart goes out to you bud.[/spoiler]
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1 ReplyI am so sorry for your losses.
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1 ReplyWow so sorry to hear. Just remember your loved ones may not be here physically with you anymore but they will always be looking out for you. They were promoted to a better place. I know that doesn't make your sorrow any better but remember you will be with them again someday. God bless you in your time of need.
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2 RepliesEdited by KenKaniff1551: 7/26/2016 1:03:06 PMSorry for your loss. You can only play the cards you're dealt. Stay strong
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3 RepliesEdited by tajBADKJ: 7/26/2016 1:23:13 PMSorry to here,it's always hard loosing close family. Lost my Father 2 years ago(lung cancer,never smoked) and thankfully talked to him the night before and a few months before spent a entire week hanging out with him. Now my mother............................ When I get that call I'll be there at the funeral to dance on her grave,when some one calls me a son of a bitch I say damn right I am.Lying,steeling bitch.
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1 ReplySorry for your loss.
