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Edited by Duardo: 7/26/2016 1:55:47 PM
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A guardian lost his mother this morning

This morning my mother passed away of complications with from a recent surgery. I know many of you will question why I'm coming here to talk about this, but I'm really just seeking comfort wherever I can get it at the moment. In the last year and a half I've lost my father, step mother and now my mom. Do me a favor guardians and tell your parents you love them. Call them every day if you can because you never know when they'll be gone. [spoiler]Moderator edit: This thread has been updated with tags that are more appropriate. Feel free to private message the moderator who moved your post, link to topic, for further clarification about why this topic was moved.[/spoiler]
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  • My grandpappy died when I was young, and that really hurt, but I'm ok now. You've just gotta move on and focus on other things for now. In time, you'll heal. I'm sorry for you.

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  • All you can do is enjoy the time you have, and remember the time that passed with them. Never forget. Stay strong.

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  • Stay strong man. I just lost my grandmother to cancer and almost my father from surgical complications we don't know if he will recover from as well. We are here for you

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  • God bless you bro

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  • I'm sorry for the loss and if you want a friend in need, message me and i'll be available.

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  • I am sorry to hear this please appreciate the life she gave you and the wisdom you will give to your family. Mums never see fault in their kids and a unique love. Please give my blessings

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      Dude... I'm not amazing with words so apologies if this isn't good enough ? We have all lost people. Parents, brothers, sisters, friends. And when grief takes over, it does it differently with every person and you've every right to seek comfort in any form it takes. Pretty sure I speak for a lot (if not all) of the community when I say you're not alone nor do you have to deal with it alone. If you ever need any help or want to talk, feel free to ask :) Now that's my daily soppyness spent so stay strong Guardian, The Last City still needs you!

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      • I'm sorry for your lost

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      • Having lost both my mother and father, I feel you. Life is a series of sometimes unconnected moments, other times it is a wonderous adrenaline fuelled, blood curdling ride that keeps getting ever faster to it's ultimate end. You have my deepest sympathies and warmest condolences. Please take heart in the fact that there are others like you out here, in this life, this time, this moment and take solace that our thoughts are with you now and forever going forward.

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      • There's no right or wrong way to deal with the grief you'll be experiencing and everyone handles it differently. Only advice I can give after experiencing something similar myself is that I tried not to spend too much time on my own. We all need times to grieve in private, but for me, my friends became my support system, n even being in the same room n not speaking was enough sometimes-i knew they were there. Never be ashamed to show ur emotions-as difficult as that can be sometimes, but I genuinely believe bottling things up hinders the grieving process. If speaking to friends or family isn't really an option, try a charity like "The Samaritans" they can be very supportive in times of need. Hope I haven't come across as patronising-I'm just speaking from my own experiences. Take care Guardian.

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      • I know how it feels man and i just want to say if you need a friend to play with or just need someone to talk to then msg me and i will do whatever i can to help you out

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      • I don't really know what to say to help comfort someone in your situation so I'll just say this. If you need anyone to help with anything hit me up and I'll help. Best of luck with learning to cope with your loss and traveler bless you and yours guardian.

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      • If you're playing on an Xbox one console hit me up. Gt above. I lost a very close friend to cancer 5 years ago. Have never experienced a parental death, but I know what it's like to a degree. if you ever need to chat message me or join my party. My prayers go out to you. May God comfort you in this time. GT: iTz Messi 19

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      • I'm sorry friend. -hugs-

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      • Alguien sabe si quita bungie un baneo de osiris Qe man baneao a mi sin se hacker

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      • My condolences

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      • Stay strong man she's in a better place, may she rest in peace.

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      • Edited by Kell of Kellogs: 7/27/2016 3:21:30 AM
        My sincerest and best wishes for you and your family.

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      • Talking about your pain is sometimes the best way of dealing with it and letting it go so that it doesn't weigh you down.

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      • May her light burn bright within you, guardian. So that she is never forgotten.

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      • I pray for you my fellow guardian brother. Sorry to hear about your lost. I know it has to be a hard time but just keep moving guardian. "Guardian Down"

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          I feel for you but don't bring your personal life into the Internet that's not a good idea.

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          • Condolences brother. You and yours will be in our prayers.

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          • Condolences brother.

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            • I've been taking care of my mother for a few years now...she has M.S.. I am so scared every morning to come downstairs to her room and find her...gone. I am crying for your loss right now and have no idea what to say for you. I am so sorry. If you need to talk or vent or even just stay silent in a party with some other to hear our voices talking hit me up. I will try to be anything you need.

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              • Hey Guardian, keep your head up man, things will get better. I'm sorry for your loss, if you need anyone to talk to, shoot me a message.

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