Don’t get me wrong, playing Online and making some online friends while you play Go nearly hand and hand. Well, give or take. But how can one go about it with out getting ignored, spammed, insulted, or worse, the ever disgraceful wrong person? What if that random player you just battled ageist/with then sent a request to or received one from, turns out to be a flaming turd? What if they just don’t have the same kinds of games in common with you, with the exception of the one you first encountered them in? Or What if they are of the pesky variety? The type of person that the Moment they see you log in they Invite bomb you. Or just randomly join in on you? Even if all you had time to or wanted to do was bum around for a little bit? The ever needy person that never lets a person have a moment of alone time, even if it leads to message after message to send them an invite or are constantly inviting you? Can you avoid situations like this? Probably. Will it happen more often than not? Likely. Can something be done to prevent it? Maybe? With Destiny, what is it that makes you send out a friend request? Or even accept one? And how do you go about it? Just send a blind request and hope for the best? Or are group finder sites the way most go? Removing the ones that don’t fit and keeping the few that do. What is it that we as Guardians do to gather more like minded people? I ask this only to see if there is indeed a Method to the Madness so to speak? So please, share some past experiences if you will. (Keeping in mind, I’m not after simply good or bad encounters. Or stories intended to stroke the Ego, insult some one, or bash an age group, just some examples of your personal experiences. Be it Good or bad.)