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Edited by The_Maul117: 12/18/2015 5:02:44 AM
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I haven't had a Girlfriend in 2 Years & 5 months...

Feel free to laugh out loud because I always laugh at myself when I say that too. Haha The title says it all and this is actually a VERY depressing topic for me. After having a traumatic experience with somebody, I've developed a new-found Fear of dating anybody specifically. Now I'm here to ask you: Do you have any advice? (Jokes are warmly welcomed, that's fine.)

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    I won't laugh at you, but I will say this; being single and able to freely scope out who is worth your time without any boundaries in place is interesting.

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  • Damn so many betas in here.

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  • 17 years, 8 months.

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  • Same here. What helps is practice. Flirt with girls you have no intention of dating. Go for the girl you want every time you want her. Even if you fall straight on your face you're better off. Take note of girls and how they react to you. If it doesn't hurt change. Most importantly, no girl is worth the price of your soul. Not even your soulmate.

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    • I haven't had a girlfriend in 15 years and 9 months. In other words, my whole life...

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    • Wait until it's obvious the person likes you, be prepared to wait (and it seems you are, so you're good there.)

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    • As a person who generaly speaking is good with women but is afraid of commitment I can tell you that once you find a girl that you are willing to break that fear for thats the right thing for ya. Also in my life I had a "phase" where I was excessively trying to be in a commited relationship. Did not work out. It just happebs when yoh least excpect it. So as hard as it might be just dont worry too much about it

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    • 40 years no sex for me

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      • 16 years 3 months

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        • 22 years, 7 months, 18 days. You got it easy

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        • Edited by gamefreakvt: 12/18/2015 6:07:16 PM
          my high score is 7 years luckily that ended about a year ago. Anyway the best advice I can give is to put yourself out there and just be yourself. Meeting new people can be tough but the hardest part is starting a conversation, once you get past that it will be easier

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        • 15 years 2 months

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        • I havent had a gf for 14 years and 7 months

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        • Why is everything in this off topic forum about gfs and love now?

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          • Well I haven't had one in 23 years! Wanna know a secret? [spoiler]im 22. [/spoiler]

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          • What a thrill... With darkness and silence through the night What a thrill... I'm searching and I'll melt into you What a fear in my heart But you're so supreme! I'd give my life Not for honour, but for you! [Snake Eater] In my time there'll be no one else Crime, it's the way I fly to you! [Snake Eater] I'm still in a dream, Snake Eater! Someday you go through the rain And someday, you feed on a tree frog This ordeal, the trial to survive For the day we see new light! I'd give my life Not for honour, but for you! [Snake Eater] In my time there'll be no one else Crime, it's the way I fly to you! [Snake Eater] I'm still in a dream, Snake Eater! I am still in a dream, Snake Eater!

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          • I haven't had a girlfriend in..... *counting* my whole life.

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            • Yes advice. I know someone who is in the same boat. He. Is 26 and lives at his mommys house. Works prt time. And doesn't make an effort to talk to girls. Or better himself. Or become self sufficient. He's fine with making 12 an hour for 20 hours a week and staying at home forever. Plan. Don't be lazy as -blam!-. Go to school. Learn a trade. Take a fcking bar tending class. Anything. Move out. Don't chime about the Packers all the time. If you've mastered these steps. New plan. Get on the app ok Cupid. I know I know people think OH I don't want to be on a dating app. But put that aside, it really helps. Even with just your confidence. Makes you more like able too, having people talk to you before you meet up (if you decide to meet up) Seriously. She's out there.

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            • I've been single for a while and I love it. I mean it is nice to have someone but heck who needs it

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              • 3 years for me, I ended up moving away to the countryside/mountains because of that crazy bitch. On the plus side, country girls love a city boy ;)

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              • 3 and a half was for me until a few months ago, then got with some chick for like a month but preferred being single,😂

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              • mfw y'all be getting girlfriends and i'm over here loving my pets

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                • Edited by ChaiseShadows: 12/18/2015 6:39:54 AM
                  If yo havin grill problems, I feel bad fo you son..... [spoiler] 3 years here but I am lucky . This is a choice I made . And feel better for. So can't really offer advice I'm afraid. Wish you all the best tho.[/spoiler]

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                  • Try xbox.com

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                  • Never had a girlfriend and likely never will :(

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                    • Broke up with mine in 2012

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