Friend zone? There are plenty of reading material that explains why that happens and why what you perceive as an asshat has the girl you want rather than you. Read up on it and it will all make sense. Plus try not to put yourself down about looks. You'd be surprise how little that matters if everything else is on point, not to mention there are things we all can do to make ourselves look and feel more attractive. Word of advice, coming off desperate or overly thirsty, even online, makes us all look bad and only feeds narcissistic female egos.